My attitude to religion is, I’m doubtful most people who say they believe in god(s) actually do. To me, there is an actual reality out there, that doesn’t revolve around my beliefs. So my beliefs had better revolve around reality.
There are many religions. Quite a few have lots of rules, which you should follow. If you succeed, you’ll end up in an eternal paradise, or some other sort of good situation. If you fail, you’ll die, or be tortured for all eternity, or some sort of other bad situation.
I can’t help but feeling that if I truly believed that was reality, then I’d actually make achieving the first result and avoiding the second a pretty damn big part of my life. If I believe someone is going to set fire to me and torture me FOREVER if I don’t do something, then honestly I’m gonna do it, and it’s gonna be something which is in my mind quite a large percentage of my mind.
And the reverse, if someone is going to reward me in a way that infinitely surpasses any other reward, then I’m going to make some effort to get that reward, by being good, praying, going to church or whatever.
I look at religious people from around the world, and the vast majority of them don’t live their lives as if they’re on a line between horrifically tortured forever or massively rewarded. They frequently only have the vaguest knowledge of the details of their religious books. They rarely go to churches or temples or whatever. They virtually never have religious discussions.
This isn’t a matter of life or death, it’s much more important than that! Yet people who call themselves religious largely ignore it. I just have a difficult time believing that if they truly believed in god(s), that most people would be happy leaving avoiding being tortured for eternity as an afterthought.
And there’s the second part, that some people seem to be picking their religious beliefs on what feels right to them. What’s nicest, or the most good.
If I’m crossing the street and a car comes speeding towards me, I move out of the way. I don’t stop believing in the car because I don’t like the idea of being crashed into. If god is a reality, I can’t pick god. god exists, it’s my job to find out what he is and what he wants. I can’t just not believe he wants X because I don’t like X.
I even know an atheist who said she became atheist because she had bad experiences with her church. Which to me is just bizarre. I have a bad experience with something, so therefore that something must not exist, so I won’t believe in it.
Does it work for walls? I want to get over there, this wall is in the way, so I’ll not believe in the wall and just walk over there. How about disease? My dad had cancer, should we all have not believed it, so it would go away?
So, sorry for going on a bit. But I just can’t help the feeling that if people who call themselves religious truly believed, they would behave like they believed. And that people know reality doesn’t change to match their beliefs, so wouldn’t pick a religion or belief based on what is nice, but based on what is most likely to be real. So, I voted “other”