Rand doesn’t say that society can not help one be successful. She’s not saying that luck doesn’t play a part, or arbitrary factors such as the birth month of a hockey player. What she’s saying is that the best kind of society, the one which will maximize the ability of everyone to reach their potential, is one in which people interact with each other from a position of rational self-interest.
I think you might be making the mistake of thinking that if I’m successful in part because of society, that I then in some way ‘owe’ society. Or that an individual’s rights are only absolute if that individual is not the member of a larger society. This is just not correct.
There doesn’t have to be a contradiction between organized, mutually beneficial society and rational self interest. Too often supporters of individualism allow collectivists to assert that without collective will there would be no charity, no cooperation, and the world would become ‘dog-eat-dog’ in a process of endless Darwinian selection and a race to the bottom of all but the very best.
But humans ARE social animals. They thrive in groups. Cooperation brings value. But it’s precisely the fact that cooperation brings value to individuals that ensures individuals will cooperate, even when seeking their own self-interest.
You do need a state to keep people from stealing from each other, coercing each other, physically intimidating each other, violating contracts with each other, defrauding each other, etc. But within the wide boundaries of that basic social compact, people who want to do better for themselves find that they do so when they cooperate with others.
This isn’t a controversial insight - it’s a restatement of Adam Smith’s invisible hand. The Nobel Prize in Economics this year went to a woman who has spent her life studying extra-governmental and extra-market organizations that people voluntarily build - everything from the Kibbutz to the corporation. Her finding is that it’s the natural state of people to organize in cooperative ventures, and collectives and such can work - but only when they are comprised of people who take part in them because it suits their own self-interest and they do so voluntarily.
The fact is, we organize together all the time even when no market forces compel us to do so and no government forces us to do so. We go to Comic-Cons, and join knitting circles and post messages on the Straight Dope and organize open-air festivals and create open-source software communities. People have no problem cooperating. Just don’t force them to do it, or tell them to cooperate in things that hold no value for them.
This seems like a non-sequitur.