The BRS instructions - and the Cirrus POH - are pretty explicit in telling you that as soon as you pull the Red Handle you can expect to junk the airplane.
It doesn’t always happen - the gentleman with the departing aileron not only was completely unhurt himself, but his airplane suffered only minor damage in the landing. But he was really, really lucky. And there have been other instances where a BRS-equipped plane landed under canopy with repairable damage. But that’s the exception.
If you’re pulling the handle because you’re experiencing an in-flight breakup - well, your airplane is probably toast anyhow. Fold a wing during aerobatics or slam into someone else in a mid-air you’re looking at some severe damage. If you’re pulling the handle over hostile terrain - well, the landing gear (the Cirrus is supposed to pancake onto the gear in this situation) and airframe will most likely take a beating, or even break. If the situation is such that you aren’t landing upright… all bets are off. Um… why else would you get the parachute out? I think the point is, you aren’t supposed to use this thing until the situation is already pretty damn dire.
The goal here is not a feather-light landing - it’s a landing you can survive. Although most of the BRS saves I’ve heard about in the lightplane/ultralight crowd have resulted in the occupants either walking or limping away there have also been broken bones in some of them. There was at least one instance in the pre-Cirrus days where the 'chute was found, apparently properly deployed, the airplane was upright, and the two men inside were both dead (I think it was a two-seat Challenger). Very puzzling.
The rule of thumb is that if you have a reasonable chance of getting the airframe intact to the ground and parked you don’t need to pull the handle - if you can’t do that you’ve already lost the airplane anyway, stop worrying about it, and save your own skin if you can. If I correctly recall my one and only glimpse of the Cirrus POH, it explicitly states that engine failure in and of itself is not sufficient reason to deploy the BRS unless you are unable to make a power-off landing. The companies that make these systems also state likewise.
They also state that you need to shut the engine off prior to deployment, and that above certain speeds - speeds a Cirrus is quite capable of - the 'chute may not work (I think there is some problem with it inflating above certain speeds). It might save you from a flat spin - it may not save you from an unrecoverable, accelerating dive.
Anyhow, in the Cirrus the Big Red Handle (it really is red) is mounted in the ceiling of the cockpit between the two seats. It’s attached to a cable that runs back along the ceiling to the BRS canister. There’s some slack, to avoid a deployment if someone just bumps it, so you need a good, hefty yank to set the system off (several folks who have had to use one in flight report it takes more of a yank than you’d expect, so haul on it for all you’re worth). This pulls the firing mechanism on the solid rocket that punches through the wall of the airplane, dragging the parachute behind it and getting it outside and open in a hurry. You still need a hundred feet to get it fully open, though. The area it exits the Cirrus has a breakaway panel installed over it, to make the rocket exit easier and speed deployment. (Installing a BRS on a small Cessna also requires the installation of a similar break-away) The rocket, however, is quite capable of punching through the side of an ordinary, non-breakaway panel airplane fuselage. If you’re moving on the high end of the speed envelope when you do this you WILL feel a mighty jolt as the opening shock slows you down significantly. If you’re already experiencing an inflight breakup, or if you just suffered structural damage in a mid-air, parts might fall off your airplane. Certainly, anything loose inside the cabin will be flying around freely.
After all that - sit back (ha!) and enjoy the ride to earth - if you can. If you’re over water when you pop the 'chute start planning your exit now. Use the time to call in a mayday.
Another cool safety device to make its debut in recent years is seatbelt airbags for airplanes. Apparently can be retrofitted to most singles. Also making an appearance in some airliners. Yes, they put the airbags in the seatbelt. I think a BRS + airbag combo might be a good thing in a crash. And Johnny - they’ve got seatbelt airbags to fit helicoptors, too!