Whether your bankruptcy is difficult or simple depends on your specific situation as an individual. If you have a lot of assets that have to be divided up among creditors, with ownership of some assets being shared with a relative or a business partner, if you’re going through a divorce at the same time as you’re filing for bankruptcy, things can get really messy. So secured debt can cause all sorts of problems. Unsecured debt, such as credit cards, can just be discharged.
Chapter 13 (rescheduling of debt) is generally more complicated than Chapter 7 (complete discharge of all debt).
Personal property and household goods generally will not be seized. They’re not going to grab your furniture, your TV, your clothes, etc. up to a certain dollar limit, and the value is estimated at “yard sale” prices. Exceptions would be things such as valuable collections (coins, stamps, comic books, etc.), jewelry and furs, art, or other items of high value. If you file, you can keep your warm winter coat, but you’re giving up those mink stoles and diamonds. Limits vary from state to state, but you’re not going to end up homeless and naked. Also, retirement funds can’t be seized. Generally speaking, any funds you have deposited in a 401K or in a pension fund etc. will not be counted among your assets. (I hesitated to file long after I should have, because I had the misconception that they could take the money I had in my employer’s pension fund.)
In theory, bankruptcies can be contested but in actual practice they seldom are. Unless you’ve done something pretty stupid (e.g. maxing out all your credit cards and then filing for bankruptcy) most creditors will just eat the loss.
If all your debt is unsecured, and you have few or no assets, the process will probably be fairly simple. But not painless. It hurts. That’s experience talking.
I started getting junk mail offers for credit cards within a year after my debts were discharged. They all had very low limits (none more than $1000, some as little $200) and charged usurious rates of interest (always at least 25% annually, not counting expensive annual fees and other non-interest charges). Rebuilding credit is difficult and slow. Count on at least 3 or 4 years, maybe longer, before you are offered credit charging less than ripoff interest rates, and this will happen only if you keep your nose really, really clean. Very likely you’ll have problems getting a mortgage for the rest of your life. Get used to the word “No.” You’re going to hear it a lot.
Some people use the bankruptcy laws dishonestly, but most are simply honest people who need relief from overwhelming debt. Lenders want the bankruptcy laws tightened. I say the laws should be tightened, but so should the laws concerning lending, so that lenders wouldn’t be allowed to offer credit so indiscriminately. At one point I had three credit cards, each having a limit of $7,000 – that would have been $21,000 in high interest, unsecured debt if I’d maxed out my cards. (My actual total wasn’t anywhere near that high.) I was only making about $23,000 a year at the time. Absolutely ridiculous.