Is anyone offended anymore when told fuck <fill in the blank>? Seems to be that these phrases are used so much they aren’t much more of an explitive anymore.
IMO it’s the attitude that usually offends, rather than any particular choice of words used to communicate it.
Feck off.
Not at all.
Fuck off, go fuck youself, fuck you, fuck me, etc. are pretty inoffensive to me and mine. Even if someone meant it, the word ‘fuck’ is too over-used to be truly offensive (then again, "please go away " could make me cry like a baby if used in the right context :().
Same as the word ‘bitch’, imho. In my age-group (early 20s) this is a humorous term of endearment. So oddly enough, I can’t imagine telling anyone I dislike to “fuck off, bitch”. My pet theory is that ‘bitch’ is like ‘bastard’ - which become a like label of affection (at least here in Australia) for my parent’s generation.
Heh, funnily enough R.E.M Ignoreland is playing on my computer as I type:
I’m really big on being considerate. Especially in our increasingly secular and hurried society. Therefore, I find the omnipresent dispersal of the finger and the term pretty distressing. Is there a ruder, more vulgar, more combative gesture or remark? I really don’t think so.
So if you casually flip me the bird from your car and think nothing of it, don’t count on me to do the same.
Narrad, we are on the same wave length here, and same age group, just different nations.
Note to self: Christmas gift idea for lieu - “The Complete Jarbaby Rant Collection.” 
Aw Weedeater, you shouldn’t have!
The thing about jar’s rants - every twat and twatplugger she references really DO deserve the sentiment.
It really just depends on the person and the manner in which they say it. Being told to “fuck off” by a friend in a joking manner doesn’t offend me a bit . If it’s said by a stranger or if the friend that says it really means it I’m gonna get defensive and say “fuck you” right back. That holds true with anything that’s said to me though. It really depends on the tone of voice.
As for me, whether the sender of the blaspheme is serious or not, when someone says, “Fuck you” i simply respond “anytime anywhere” of course I don’t mean this. But sometimes it will give the other person something to think about.
One just needs a witty retort. Try the old handyism ‘I just love it when you talk dirty to me’ this should get them to shut up.
The last time someone told me “Fuck you” I just told 'em “You wouldn’t like it. I’d just lay there and sweat.”
AAARRRGGGHHH!!! I hate it when people do dumb shit like that. It just pisses me off more. The last thing I want when I tell someone “fuck/eat/blow/lick me” is some shitty, smartass comeback. Even worse are the ones by SlickUSA and handy. When someone says “fuck you,” they’re not looking for “witty” rhetorts, they want you to leave them the fuck alone!!
Sorry, just wanted to lift that off my chest.
Swearing at other people may mean nothing to you, because you say it all the time and it has lost all meaning to you, but it might be very hurtful to the person receiving it. I was driving one day, just minding my own business, when a guy who thought I cut him off yelled “Fuck you, bitch!” at me. I burst out in tears when he did this. I have a very low tolerance for being sworn and yelled at (thanks to an abusive father); I’m sure I’m not the only person like this, either. Just something to think about.
But Spanky, that’s kind of the point!
If someone tells me to Fuck off, I’m not gonna meekly hang my head and say, “Yes sir, I’ll just be fucking off then.” The “AAARRRGGGHHH!!!” reaction is exactly what handy and EVO95 want to provoke. I guess it really works.
Actually, I think when someone says “Fuck you!” they usually want the other person to get angry. A smartass comment denies them the satisfaction. But then, (finally getting around to the OP), it depends on delivery. And, yeah, it definitely loses impact with overuse.
Gee, you think that might be their intent?
I guess it depends on context. When I’m joking around with my husband and say, “yeah well, fuck you asshole” he knows I’m just playing, and he usually retorts with “Is that a request…” You get the picture.
However, last night when (under my breath) I called my coworker a “motherfucking whore” I meant it with all the anger and disgust that I could muster. I imagine that if she had heard the comment, she would have completely understood exactly how I feel about her.
It all depends on how it’s said and who is saying it. Most of the time it’s said as a joke and I reply with a joke like “please” “when where and how hard”, or if I’m feeling like a bitch, “no”.
Yes, but you aren’t suppoed to treat it like an invitation. From the perspective of the person who said “fuck you,” replying with a joke makes you look like a smart-ass retard, especially since such replies are not very clever.
“Tee hee, he said ‘fuck you,’ and I said ‘no thanks’. I’m so clever, tee hee.”
I don’t know, maybe my high school was just full of smart-ass idiots.
BTW: the part of my earlier post should have read “fuck you (or) eat/lick/blow me.”
“hehe, fkyou”
-Krammet the Frog