Best Breakup Songs Ever.

“If So” by Happy Rhodes

I ask you, now tell the truth
I ask you, was it worth the price you paid?
If so…

I know you loved me darling
But I need to know, did you mean to hurt me so?
If so…

Go away way very far away, take your leave
I’ll never hate you, I’ll never think of you
And I’ll never grieve

Did you want it all… free love
Did it satisfy, was it your intention to deceive?
If so…

You made me happy, you made me cry
You gave me hope, was my happiness a lie?
If so…

Go away way very far away, take your leave
I’ll never hate you, I’ll never think of you
And I’ll never grieve

I ask you, now tell the truth
I ask you, was it worth the price you paid
If so…

I just thought of a better one… Shellac’s “Prayer to God”

Let’s see if I can clean this one up enough to post here.

Really, I’m not bitter. It’s a good song. :wink:

Obscure & dusty,but the best EVER “I’m dumpin’ my winter honey
cause it’s warm enough now to go out & chase other girls” song:Summertime’s Callin’ Me by the Catalinas.

Love Will Tear Us Apart - Joy Division

When routine bites hard, and ambitions are low
And resentment rides high, but emotions won’t grow
And we’re changing our ways, taking different roads
Then love, love will tear us apart again –

Why is the bedroom so cold? You’ve turned away on your side
Is my timing that flawed - our respect run so dry?
Yet there’s still this appeal that we’ve kept through our lives
Love, love will tear us apart again –

You cry out in your sleep - all my failings expose
There’s a taste in my mouth, as desperation takes hold
Just that something so good just can’t function no more
When love, love will tear us apart again –

“Smoke Rings in the Dark” by Gary Allen. For those times when you’ve both tried your best to make it work, but it still ain’t working.

That’s the one!

“I wish that for just one moment you could stand here in my shoes
You’d know what a drag it is to see you”

(IIRC)

I’m gonna go with Jets to Brazil - Anemone.

Sung from the perspective of a guy lying drunk and almost passed out on the bathroom floor. Beautiful, in a very odd way. Lyrics here.

Also, Kate Bush’s You’re the one.

And of course, Weird Al’s One More Minute

My boyfriend suggested Type O Negatives, “Unsuccessfully Coping with the Knowledge of Infidelity (I Know You’re F**king Someone Else).”

“Hello Walls” by Faron Young.

Stunningly… I’ve yet to see a vote for Lover You Should Have Come Over" By Jeff Buckley.

“Lonely is the room, the bed is made
the open window lets the rain in
and lying in the corner is the only boy
who dreams he had you with him”
//
"Maybe I’m just too young, to keep good love
from going wrong
to deaf, dumb, and blind to see the damage I’ve done
oh but lover you should’ve come over

but its not too late"

Or really, if i remember correctly, just about every song on that album. Its a homage to the dumped man. You gotta wonder what kinda woman leaves a guy who looked and sung like him to begin with.

RIP

CJ

"Deep Dark Truthful Mirror" -Elvis Costello; similar themes to “You Oughta Know”.

"It’s All Over Now" - Rolling Stones
"Out of Time" - " "
"I’m Free" - " "

"It Won’t Hurt" - Dwight Yoakam

"Goodbye" - Steve Earle (But I recall…all of them nights down in Mexico…)

“How can you mend a broken heart?”

By the Bee Gees
How can you stop the rain from falling
and let me live again?

Oh, and speaking of The Rolling Stones, how could I forget **“No Expectations”:

*Your heart is like a diamond
You throw your pearls at swine
And as I watch you leaving me
You pack my peace of mind

So take me to the station
And put me on a train
I’ve got no expectations
To pass through here again*

There’s a whole plethora on the Bob Dylan album Blood on the Tracks: Simple Twist of Fate, You’re a Big Girl Now, You’re Gonna Make Me Lonesome When You Go, If You See Her Say Hello, Buckets of Rain.

Cheryl Wheeler - Arrow

Any number of Fleetwood Mac songs particularly off of Rumours or Tusk. Especially Go Your Own Way

Leonard Cohen - Marianne, Hey That’s No Way to Say Goodbye

That’s all I can come up with for now. Bear in mind, most of these are of the sad but gentle, moving-on type, not the “fck 'em, kill 'em, fck 'em, kill 'em!” sort.

I’m not even sure this is a breakup song:

*How thoughtlessly we dissipate our energies
Perhaps we don’t fulfill each other’s fantasies.
And so we’ll stand upon the ledges of our lives,
With our respective similarities
It’s either sadness or euphoria.[/]i

  • Summer, Highland Falls by Billy Joel

Excellent gut-ripper: “I Can’t Make You Love Me” as sung by Bonnie Raitt.

Turn down the lights, turn down the bed
Turn down these voices inside my head
Lay down with me, tell me no lies
Just hold me close, don’t patronize - don’t patronize me
CHORUS: Cause I can’t make you love me if you don’t
You can’t make your heart feel something it won’t
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I’ll feel the power
But you won’t, no you won’t
'Cause I can’t make you love me, if you don’t
I’ll close my eyes, then I won’t see
The love you don’t feel when you’re holding me
Morning will come and I’ll do what’s right
Just give me till then to give up this fight
And I will give up this fight
CHORUS: Cause I can’t make you love me if you don’t
You can’t make your heart feel something it won’t
Here in the dark, in these lonely hours
I will lay down my heart and I’ll feel the power
But you won’t, no you won’t
'Cause I can’t make you love me, if you don’t

34 replies and no one’s mentioned “The Breakup Song” by the Greg Kihn Band?

The song It’s Too Late as sung by Carol King started playing on the radio as my girlfriend of seven years and I were discussing how our relationship was failing. As a consequence, this breakup song is forever imprinted on my brain.

One Last Cry - Brian McKnight

Against All Odds - Phil Collins

End of the Road - Boyz II Men

Listening to these can still bring back some old heartaches.

“Black Coffee in Bed” - Squeeze

“You Got Lucky” - Tom Petty

“Everyday I Write the Book” and “You’re Not the Only Flame in Town” - Elvis Costello

“Heartbreak Hotel” - Elvis Presley

and my all-time favorite…

“The King Is Gone (and So Are You)” - George Jones

Last night I broke the seal
On a Jim Beam decanter that looked like Elvis
I soaked the label off a Flintstone jelly bean jar
I cleared us off a place
On the warm little table that you left us
And pulled me up a big old piece of floor
I pulled the head off Elvis
Filled Fred up to his pelvis
Yabba dabba do
The King is gone
And so are you

(Gotta love any breakup song that references both Elvis and The Flintstones.)