Yeah, I was just about to post this.
I only speak for my own experience with blacks that I know, having been born and raised in ghetto black culture, but my take is;
There is ‘being smart’ and there is ‘acting white’. Both of these terms were often used when I was growing up. Being smart was very much praised by everyone I knew, kids and grownups, poor family members and well to do family members, everyone I knew. If you did well in school, it was bragged about. Not being able to read or reading slow in school was the quickest way to get you ragged on until you cried. Learning was good and I have never, ever heard different in the black culture that I am familiar with.
‘Acting white’, while a stupid term, to be sure, was a very common term. It meant a certain way of talking, walking, dressing and acting that blacks perceived as ‘white’ behaviors. It was cool to be smart, but if you affected a ‘white’ accent you were put down for that. A lot of black kids I know were raised around mostly whites, and they weren’t putting on a white accent…they really talked that way. But the were put down too.
You can be the smartest kid in school and still be cool. But if you were the smartest kid in school and acted ‘nerdy’ ‘geeky’ or ‘white’, you were put down.
Two different things entirely. I hear very often that being smart = acting white in the black community, but that has not been my experience at all. I wonder why so many white people I talk to about it think that?
I will use my daughter as an example. She has had some issues with kids in our culture because of her ways. Unlike me, she doesn’t ‘talk black’, she doesn’t use a lot of black slang (she uses tons of ‘internet’ slang, though) and she doesn’t have…soul, I guess. She is into stuff like anime and she wears glasses and is kind of awkward. She gets crap from kids in our culture about those things in particular. She gets told she ‘acts’ or ‘talks’ white sometimes. Nothing to do with her intellect.
But I only speak from my viewpoint.
ETA: it may be true that blacks don’t place as much time, energy and importance on education as others. Poor blacks, I mean, and blacks in the ghettos. Other things may take precedent over education, which is a shame, but true, I think. But that is entirely different than this ‘smart = acting white’ stuff I have been hearing.
