The staff usually asks me do I use the larger cuff and go ahead and use it when I say yes. Sometimes they have to hunt one down, so maybe your folks are more pressed for time and try to get by on what’s handy?
There is a standard, the short end of the cuff is supposed to be measured against the upper arm and is supposed to encircle at least 40% of the arm IIRC. I’m not sure why it isn’t done more often or why you have to argue to get a bigger cuff, though. I would certainly use one if my client said that’s what has been used before.
I have had to use the large cuff also. I’m tall and slender, but I have always worked out and my tricep tends to get big, but it’s not very obvious so the nurses always look at me funny.
I originally had a doctor tell me my high reading was just due to the cuff, seemed like too easy an answer, I was worried the large one was going to give me a false low reading but he insisted it would not do that even if it wasn’t the correct cuff.