The Princess Who Saved Herself. More suited for a six-year-old than a 19-year-old but still worth mentioning for completeness’ sake. Also, I prefer the original Jonathan Coulton song to the book, frankly.
Beauty by Sheri Tepper retells some classic fairy tales (as the title might indicate). The main character is actually the daughter of a Duke, but cites references that demonstrate such should be considered “princesses” as well.
This was going to be my recommendation. There are actually four books in the series, all of which involve Princess Cimorene, although she’s only the protagonist in the first one.
I haven’t read this one, but Princess Academy by Shannon Hale is a YA novel about non-royal girls who are attending a school that’s supposed to prepare them to for being princesses. The local prince intends to choose one of them as his bride.
I feel like I’ve been running into princesses in stories a ton lately. I’m writing this to try to remind myself to look up the books I’m thinking of when I get home.
The Rose of the Prophet trilogy centers around a prince from a pseudo-Arabian nomadic tribe, a princess from a warring tribe and young pseudo-European wizard. During a war among the gods, the deity of the nomads forces the two tribes to join via marriage, the prince is looking for a submissive bride, the princess of course is the exact opposite (fiery disposition, rides horses, etc) and the predictable clash of personalities ensues with the predictable conclusion. Was still a fun read though.
Filed under “non-traditional princesses” would be Archangel by Sharon Shinn.
Mortals in the book world are watched over by angels, chief among which is the Archangel. The Archangel is required to marry a mortal woman who becomes the Angelica and rules with him. The current Archangel, Gabriel, is informed of his divinely selected bride, Rachel, a former nomad turned slave. She’s naturally less excited about the deal than he is (and his enthusiasm is purely from sense of duty), adventure and romance ensue. She was divinely selected from birth to become the Angelica so she was technically a princess all along. Although book one in a series, it’s stand alone.
When growing up in the late 60’s I read this book.
It’s called The High King’s Daughter, and takes place in Ireland, circa the tenth century. Alfred is king of England. The princess in the book is an older teen, and doesn’t like the constraints her rank places on her. Lot’s of adventure, a Viking invasion, and later on, an Irish prince too.
If you do go with Xanth, I’d suggest not giving her anything later than Man From Mundania. That’s near the threshold where Anthony got creepy and quasi-pedo. I think the creepy didn’t really show itself until later than that. There are even more princesses in later books, but that’s smack square in the middle of the pedo phase.
Yeah, I’m sure there were probably options after that, but I would avoid them, on the whole. Even if, by whatever chance, they end up non-pedo, you would still have to deal with the fact that he was writing by numbers by that point.