This thread is inspired by the local hubbub in southeastern Wisconsin involving Archbishop Weakland and his former intimate, Paul Marcoux. Marcoux had accused Weakland of abuse, coercing him into an unwanted relationship using his authority as an archbishop. Weakland denied any abuse took place, and stated that he (Weakland) broke off the relationship when he renewed his commitment to celibacy. He did agree to settle with Marcoux for $450,000 in funds from the church, providing that Marcoux kept his claims quiet. If Marcoux did not, repayment of the moneys would be expected. Note that Marcoux was an adult when the alleged abuse took place.
Fast forward to 2002. On May 15, Jerry Topczewski, spokesman for the archdiocese, was quoted in a Journal Sentinel story about the “listening sessions” that had been planned for that night - organized discussions at six churches about priest sex abuse. Topczewski said that all victims should feel free to come forward and speak of their experiences, regardless of whether they had
signed a confidentiality agreement. Marcoux came forward with his story after this. Not locally at the church meetings. But on national TV.
Now Marcoux is subject to great vilification for “breaking the silence”. Should he have kept silent? Was the original agreement illegal in the first place, since it could be construed as covering up a crime? Should Marcoux give the money back? What do the GD dopers think of this?
Personally I don’t have a problem with Marcoux coming forth. I don’t know enough about him to decide whether he is acting out of principles, or is a “little cockroach” as some have labeled him. But if the american Catholic church is to survive (caveat: I am not a catholic, and never have been), I think a lot of secrets will have to be revealed, and a lot of skeletons will have to come out of the closet. What say you?