OK, you don’t want them to starve. You merely want them to not recieve food.
You did say:
I suppose that’s not the same as a demand to abdicate, but seems about as likely to succeed.
Your general thesis seems to be that by feeding people in Afghanistan, we are freeing the Taliban of the responsibility of feeding them. I counter that this depends on assuming that the Taliban would feed the people of Afghanistan on its own. I see no reason to assume this. As a matter of fact, I see it as entirely likely that the Taliban would simply allow them to starve, and perhaps steal what little food there is for themselves.
You would have a point if the Taliban fed the people of Afghanistan. In that case, by doing it for them, we would indeed be freeing up resources for the Taliban to do evil with. However, unless I see some sort of compelling evidence, I’m going to assume that the Taliban is no greater of a welfare provider than the US government. And I know that the US government does not feed me.
I would go even further and say that the Taliban’s control would be increased if the people depended upon them for food. As it is, the people can get nourishment due to the US’s aid, rather than having to kowtow to the Taliban for their sustinence.
Basically, group A is doing all manner of evil things to group B. Group B is also comprised of poor, starving people, largely due to the efforts of group A. Group C provides aid to group B, so they don’t simply die of starvation. You maintain that this helps group A, and if group C stopped, group A would supply group B with sustinence.
This is absurd.
Also, you have simply pretended that the article you quoted originally was basically correct, when it was outright lying in several aspects. The US does not give cash to the Taliban, it gives humanitarian aid to the victims of the Taliban. You claim that between these two is a distinction without a difference. There is a world of difference between the two, even if you think that the humanitarian aid helps the Taliban. Explaining away the gross errors in the OP without admitting that you were simply wrong is intellectually dishonest.