Yes, you have. Although I agree that many parts of Sub-saharan Africa aren’t brimming over with opportunities- American is. You, as a Californian, can go to a nice two year college- at night, after your shitty job- bascily for what amounts to *free. * This can get you a Nursing credential (for example; or police science, or dental tech, or…) amoung many other excellent and well paid job opportunities. Yes, you have to get your ass off the couch after work, skipping the nightly TV, and into college for a few years. But you have no fucking excuse.
(OK, if you are PD, maybe you have an excuse, but even so, the opportunities for a disabled person here in the USA are many and varied).
Unless you’re stupid or lazy, you can get a decent job (here in America) if you strive. Sure, being a Nurse (for example) is hard work- but the pay isn’t bad at all, and there’s scads of openings. Shit-loads better than fry-cook at fast food, anyway. And, even there- one of my Ex’s freinds left her abusive husband. She had no job skills, and yes, she went on welfare for a year. Then, she got a job at McDonalds, but her determination and hard work got her promoted to crew chief within 6 months, and when I last heard from her, they were sending her to Hamburger Univ. All she had was a GED, average IQ, and scads of determination and get up and go. Oh, and two young kids, too. And, she lived in East San Jose, not exactly a better neighborhood. If she can do it, you can.
**buttonjockey308 ** is more or less wrong. But- only “more or less”. For although most of Sub-saharan Africa is hardly opportunity rich, a person can still strive and make things better. Still, their chances and opportunities are crap compared to here, but there are chances and opportunities.