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Whenever anyone starts a debate on gay marriage, I always ask “Why is the government in the ‘Marriage Business’ in the first place?”
As far as I’m concerned, Marriage is a religious function, and any legal issues should be taken care of with a “civil union” type of contract.
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Let’s leave aside gay marriage for a minute. Only devoutly religious people get married? Even athiests that I know still get married to each other.
The state by recognizing the institution of marriage is simply accepting what is a large part of society and is serving that interest by allowing this institution as a function of law.
Sure, marriage has its roots in religion. No doubt about that. And if it was strictly a religious institution, then I could see your argument and agree with it. It would be like the government recognizing and regulating Baptisms or Bar Mitzvahs.
But since marriage serves a secular function, and the state allows secular marriages to proceed, then what is the problem? Imagine how silly it would be if my wife and I consider ourselves married, our family does, the neighbors do, etc., but the law wants to have a stubborn resistence to the idea so that we have to continue to act as separate entities.
Now, gay marriage. Historically homosexual sodomy has been frowned upon and in this country it has largely been illegal. In the latter half of the last century, it has gained more acceptance to the point where it is today.
Has it become an accepted practice like heterosexual marriage? Should the government redefine marriage? That’s why we have this thread and this debate. It is not a settled issue.
It’s very possible that it should be allowed, but this is a matter for the legislatures, not the courts.