I agree. The majority of voters, I have decided over the years, do not want leaders who are completely honest with them. We want leaders who look nice, who talk nice, and who say the things we want to hear, whether or not they’re true, and who promise, in a parental tone, to shield us from the worst the world has to offer; and, perhaps most importantly, who are able to Get Shit Done.
The interesting thing is that this last qualifier doesn’t necessarily have to have anything whatsoever to do with the first set of qualifiers; there can be a complete disconnect between Strength, as in the ability to lead and/or achieve, and Charisma, as in the ability to be liked. As long as one is perceived as being Strong, the things one is strong about need bear no relationship at all to what one is perceived as being Charismatic about. Witness Bush, simultaneously Christian and Warmonger (“he loves Jesus, and he kicks ass!”), or Clinton, simultaneously Sensitive Guy and Serial Philanderer (“he feels our pain, and he gets crazy pussy!”). It’s fundamentally irrational, but then, hey, that’s the nature of people. More significantly, it permits, or perhaps demands, inherently dishonest leadership.
And, I sincerely believe, it’s that way because that’s what people want.
So, no, I don’t think an honest man has a chance in our democratic system. At all.
(Note that, as has been observed above, this is somewhat different in our television age than it might have been previously.)