In a couple of threads that I’ve be lurking in, the topic of choice has been used to place responsibility of undesireable results/ behaviours on the person themselves. Obesity, Welfare, Crime, Speech patterns etc are a matter of choice. YOU chose to overeat, YOU chose to drink, YOU chose to spread your legs…nothing else matters except the end result of that choice, including what may have caused you to make that choice in the first place.
There’s always the statement; that person can choose not be a drunk, fat, criminal, uneducated etc; because I or my Uncle Charlie, chose not to and they can too. These people CHOOSE not to avail themselves of all resources available to them and only have themselves to blame for their situation.
On the surface it seems a fair enough statement. You know, be responsible for your choices and humans seem to have a myriad of choices…but do we really?
If Mr. Smith can choose to be an accountant as opposed to a pimp, if Mrs. Jones can choose not to have more children than she can afford to feed then, if little Timmy can choose not to be a street thug, THEN…
I should be able to choose to be a rapist, or a drunk or fat or lazy…but I can’t. I don’t have it in me. It didn’t enter my mind to have sex with my drunk semi-conscious girlfriend back in college. It didn’t occur to me to drink till I was blind everyday, although I come from a family of alcoholics. It didn’t occur to me that I had the choice to use my last token on a subway ride to a job interview or use it to hop on the subway and wait to roll a guy.
Those choices weren’t part of my life experience, they’re not accessible to me. They don’t exist, except in theory.
In this reality, those choices aren’t available to me. Sure in theory, I suppose I could beat my wife, abuse my kids, smoke crack, deal smack and build a tolerance to alcohol; becoming a drunk…but that’s not reality.
Again those other choices simply doesn’t exist for me. If I can’t wake up tomorrow and start dealing crack, then why is it possible for little Timmy to toss aside his 9 and pick up a book; even IF we have personal knowledge of people who have done just that? Does the exception make the rule?
The point to this is, If those bad choices aren’t available to me whether due to good breeding, common sense or good luck, then why would “good” choices be assured to people who we considered having made bad choices?
Can people still choose, when they really have no choice at all?