Personal Thanksgiving highlights over the years:
As a child, hurling myself at and dropping out of trees onto piles of leaves while my father raked, both of us wearing matching big blue sweaters my grandmother had knitted. Then watching him burn the piles and keeping alert for stray embers. Toward the end of the afternoon, when we were cold and tired, going inside and sitting down in the formal dining room with the silver and china laid out so prettily, and being allowed to light the candelabras. Then diving into a huge roast turkey with carrots and potatoes, and lemon pie for desert, surrounded by my parents, my sister, and a wonderful assortment of grandparents, uncles and aunts, all talking and laughing and sharing together.
As a young teenager, hiking about the Niagara Escarpment with my Scouting friends, crawling through some crevices (one time squeezing out of one, losing my trousers in the process, only to emerge in the midst of several girl guides – such humiliation). Lying in fields with my friends, looking up at the flying Vs of Canadian geese, honking their way south. Getting lost, but eventually finding our way clear, and finding many wonderful places in the process. Learning to accept and love the land.
As a young adult, paddling trough Killarney, a treasure of a wilderness place, testing my limits with 80km days of paddling and portaging through the quartzite hills. Catching the seasons’ first good show of northern lights. Waking with a dusting of snow on my blanket. Enjoying the warm sun on my back while cutting along an alpine lake, as smooth as glass, looking down at its bottom, tens of metres below. Coming across small flocks of ducks when entering into bays, and encountering foxes and the occasional bear while jogging up and over the hills with my boat on my shoulder. Challenging the land, but eventually learning not to challenge it, and instead be one with it.
As an adult, sitting with my sister beside her wood stove, with her cats to one side, and her collie to the other. She and I taking turns on her grand, spending the afternoon and evening working our way through Bach, Beethoven and Chopin, until we thought our fingers could take no more, but not stopping until the long candles ran down to their bases. The next morning, visiting an outdoor market with my cousins and their adorable young daughters, so alert and curious, and then traipsing through the splendorous woods with them, just as my parents had done with my sister and me years and years before. And of course returning to yet another feast, with such a wonderful family with which to share it – everyone from the parents to the kids to the pets helping create it (or to be correct, the children helping by preventing the pets from helping).
Such wonderful, loving people, and such a magnificent land. I am truly thankful.