Thanks to all of you for your responses.
Sheila’s husband is a really, really great guy, and I’m sure the boys will turn out great, as well. Sheila’s mom has been requesting that all of her friends share their favorite stories of times with Sheila so that she can assemble a book of them for the kids to have growing up, which I think is a fantastic idea. I kind of wish I’d had something like that about my father from when he passed away.