Hi MegaDave, sorry to hear about the accident. Glad you’re ok.
Legal experience talking here (IANAL yet, still a paralegal for now) so here goes:
It depends on what state you’re in.
If you live in a state known for generous, emotional juries, you have more power over the insurance company. They will not want to go to trial if they know that one look at your little girl’s face is going to get the jury so mad that they stick it to them in the verdict.
If you are in a state where NO jury gives anyone anything, or gives them a paltry amount, it will be harder. The insurance company knows your chances at trial aren’t very good so they will try to lowball you.
According to http://www.harrisinteractive.com/harris_poll/index.asp?PID=286, the 5 “best” states to have a jury trial (as far as fairness goes) are Delaware, Kansas, North Dakota, Utah, and Washington. The 5 worst are Mississippi, Alabama, West Virginia, Louisiana and Texas. (Being from WV I can confirm that WV is indeed a horrible place to be if you’ve been in a car accident.)
The jury system has its flaws and one big one is that the jury is made up of 12 people who usually don’t know jack about the law and how lawsuits work. You’ll get in a car accident, rack up say 20k in bills. The jury gets told this, so they come back with a 20k verdict and they think they’ve done you a favor. Little do they realize that your lawyer gets his/her cut off the top, which includes the cost of the lawsuit itself (copies, postage, expert witnesses, etc.) You end up with not enough money to pay your bills, and zilch for punitives.
It also depends on what insurance company you are dealing with. Some are more willing to settle fairly than others. In my experience, State Farm is the absolute worst to deal with but ask 100 legal people who’s the worst and you’ll probably get at least 25 different answers.
I wish I could make a prediction as to what you can expect to get but I just can’t. I doubt the insurance company will offer nothing and risk a trial but I very seriously doubt that they will offer everything you are entitled to.
What are you entitled to? Lost wages, compensation for loss of services that you provided to the household (mowing, fixing the car, etc.), all medical expenses, plus punitives for pain and suffering, etc. Insurance companies tend to not even bother with punitives because, let’s face it, they aren’t sorry their driver hit you. They’re just sorry they’re being sued.
Hope this helps, and I hope you get a good settlement 