Exactly. If CarnalK showed up in a thread I was in, I would often stop posting in that thread, or even reading it. Not worth the hassle.
Yeah, and this is what- the third ban for something others do all the time?
What do you think suspensions are?
I agree - it’s a low-level insult, but an insult nevertheless. If you tell a stranger that he’s just babbling, chances are, they’re going to be at least mildly offended. I’m used to it, and I wasn’t really offended, because I just don’t care that much what an anonymous user writes about my posts. Even so, I certainly understood it to mean that he was calling my post (and me) stupid. I just didn’t care. It’s CarnalK - I’m used to it.
Still, an insult nevertheless, and CarnalK is someone who generally seems unable or unwilling to post without respecting other people’s feelings. There’s little disagreement here.
And I know it’s coming so I’ll address it now: Yes, yes, I know I’ve said outrageous and offensive shit before, but it’s mostly confined to the BBQ pit, and when it’s not, I’ve been moderated. I’ve only protested my moderation once, and I conceded in retrospect that I was a douchebag about it and have since personally apologized to the moderator in question.
What? Of course it is. It’s very low-level jerkishness, but it is very much being a jerk.
I know this, as someone who has been a jerk (and probably will be again, no doubt)
Well, I disagree with you.
And more importantly, it seems, so do the mods.
I was actually tempted to throw some of it back at CarnalK over that comment, not because it offended me but because I just get tired of his shitty attitude and wanting to insult people in ways that are just within the rules. I chose not to because I just didn’t want to discuss that topic anymore. There was nothing nutritional in those last few pages of that thread - except for posts coming from people who actually have a background in data science and public health.
When said “Riiight,” I was expressing my frustration with what were frankly pedantic responses (I’m being very diplomatic here, DSeid) in that thread. DSeid was arguing data science with…a fucking data scientist. Telperion and CarnalK were equally egregious in this regard, but making even less of an effort to support it with any kind of rationale or intellect.
That thread was already dead because there was absolutely nothing left to debate. Sweden messed up its response to COVID - full stop. There was absolutely nothing left to debate or argue about to that end. We were getting into grassy knoll territory.
ISTM pretty clear that the people who object to the banning don’t think he was being a jerk. IOW, it’s not that they don’t “understand”, just that they don’t agree. (Personally, I think telling people who simply disagree with you “is that so hard to understand?” is at least on par with “what are you babbling about?” on the obnoxiousness scale, but I digress.)
I agree with the concept that a guy who has all these warnings and suspensions etc. is on thin ice. But I would expect that to manifest itself in the form of less tolerance for actual transgressions. What would be a warning becomes a suspension, what would be a suspension becomes a banning, perhaps what would be a mod note becomes a warning. But taking something that is commonly done, which is clearly perceived as acceptable by a good number of non-jerk posters, and which has never been objected to by any moderator, and turning that into a ban-triggering warning based solely on the poster’s thin ice status, is ridiculous IMHO.
Methinks if I tell a stranger that his answer is complete nonsense, he will probably be at least mildly offended. Telling someone that they are wrong gives the impression that you think you know more than they do. It is, after all, impolite to tell people they are wrong, at least in front of others.
~Max
By that meter, if you tell someone their thoughts are a Logical fallacy, then that’s a insult, and you might as well shut down GD now. Hell, the whole board.
Or “your post makes no sense”- that is that exact same meaning as “what are you babbling about?”. And all of those have been used on this board, over and over since time immemorial, with nary a Note even- and now it is suddenly Bannable.
That’s just plain wrong.
One mod, and he is wrong here.
Only if you misconstrue what those bans were for.
If you have been told by the mods that you are skating on thin ice and you insist on doing barrel jumps while on that thin ice, something is going to break.
Are you claiming that no other mods were consulted before this decision was made?
Bans of established members are always the result of a consensus decision among the mods. While we are capable of unilaterally banning, we only do so for spammers and completely-obvious trolls.
The ice was thin, but this was a butterfly alighting.
Ahhh, the butterfly effect.
Not quite.
CarnalK was a repeat offender. He had “priors” as the cops like to say. He’s out of warnings. It’s straight into exile after a certain point.
Meanwhile the moderator’s darling is evidently allowed to talk shit about everyone he wants all the time without any repercussions. I guess that must be real nice, huh?
First of all, the idea that I am any moderator’s “darling” is laughable. I can assure you I’m no moderator’s pet.
Secondly, my name was already tossed around by DSeid - you can thank him for that. I hadn’t planned on penning a response, but since DSeid called me out and agreed with CK’s characterization that I was “babbling,” I wanted to offer a rebuttal of my own. DSeid wanted to talk about “context,” so I was bringing more context to the discussion.
I’m probably not the only one who feels that the thread got pretty effing stupid in that last page or two, which were nothing more than people with egos refusing to acknowledge that they’re wrong and that they don’t know what they’re talking about.
To be honest I’d have to agree too, most of your posts are histrionics and nonsense.
Had you made a thoughtful response to Telperion in the thread in question then CK wouldnt have written his post. It seems either both of you two should have been warned or neither. Telparion post:
https://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=22354330&postcount=414