Re: The recent banning of cynyc
http://boards.straightdope.com/sdmb/showpost.php?p=15501306&postcount=2
I have a different bone to pick here, not related to the question of what is or isn’t a slur, or to the actual merits of this or any other banning.
ISTM the mods here have a habit of issuing warnings (often including the words “Don’t do this again.”) and then, without further incident, banning the offender. In the present case, for example, we see this mod warning:
Then the next thing we know, the poster is banned, apparently without further notice.
Something ain’t right with that. When you issue a warning, that’s an instruction to do (or not do) something in the future. When the mods BAN someone, they often put a final post in the thread saying so (and then, they might or might not close the thread). But issuing a warning seems to say, in effect, “Okay, we’re giving you a chance (one last chance, maybe) to clean up your act”, but it seems to be a promise that we’re not banning you NOW. Then you go and ban the guy. That seems like a betrayal of sorts. It’s a stab in the backside.
That kinda-sorta happened to me once (on another board, years ago). I got a warning that I would be suspended if I wrote anything like that again, which certainly sounds like it’s saying “Okay, we’re not going to do that now” and then, the next time I looked, I found myself suspended for a month.
I left that board and never looked back. I thought it was a damn dirty trick.
Yet, there’s this appearance that the mods here do that too. There have been several cases I’ve noted of people getting a warning and then the next thing we know, they’re banned. That makes me feel like this board is a dangerous place to hang out, never knowing who will be gone next. It reminds me of the horror stories we used to read about all the people disappearing in Argentina in the Juan Peron days.
If the mods have sufficient log-in and posting records, they might note that I (mostly) left this board earlier this year for several months, after yakuza got disappeared, IIRC. People were actually engaging him in his … unconventional … discussions. Yeah, he had a few warnings and mod notes. And then one day, without any obvious notice, he was just banned. I looked for banning notices or any final obnoxious posts in all this threads, and couldn’t find any.
My complaint here IS NOT about the actual merits of any bannings. It’s about the mod practice of giving warnings (implying you’re not getting banned… yet) and then promptly banning. That just seems wrong.
ETA: Mods, note typo in title line: “…when them…” should be “…when they…”