I have heard another reason for the myth of cats stealing the breath from babies. Cats seem to enjoy the taste of milk. Since babies frequently have the scent of milk on their breath, cats will lie next to or on top of them and lick at the baby’s mouth.
Is this a fact, I don’t know, but coupled with the warm body theory, I think that it makes sense.
I do know that my cat seems to prefer sleeping as close to my ear as possible (or right between the shoulder blades (where I can’t reach him)).
I buy that the cat might be a smothering risk if it climbs into a crib and expires inside, but otherwise most of the cats I’ve known seem to avoid babies & kids like the plague. (If I was of a more twisted bent, I’d say something like “but the exception proves the rule”)