Cats vs. Dogs, time to let the fur fly.

I love dogs, too, I really do. But our current dog, Jimmy, has just been such a trial. We got him when he was only 5 weeks old (too young, but his mother’s owner had 7 more like him at home and was eager to get rid of them) and now he’s 7 months. He’s the youngest dog I’ve ever had and potty training and teething have been a learning experience for us all. I’m looking forward to him becoming older and more sedate, hopefully. But right now all he seems to want from us to play. He doesn’t cuddle, he’s definitely not a lap dog, and I couldn’t convince people not to let him chew on their hands or clothing when he was tiny and cute, so now when he wants attention, guess what? We’re human chew toys. I blame myself for his faults. I’m not very strong physically and haven’t been able to assert my dominance over him when he’s been naughty. He lept into the role of pack leader very early and it’s been hard convincing him otherwise.

Our last dog, Daisy, was about 2 years old when we got her and she lived to be about 14. I still miss her terribly. I knew she loved me, the way she would always jump up in the chair I was sitting in and roll over to have her belly rubbed, and the way she’d close her eyes and lick her lips showed she was in doggy heaven. (I shouldn’t have said doggy heaven, now I’m going to cry.) I’m sure Jimmy loves me too, in his own way; he follows me everywhere and lays on the kitchen floor near me when I’m cooking. Sometimes too near :slight_smile: But he’s not submissive. It’s very rare he’ll roll over for a belly rub and he doesn’t seem to get into it the way Daisy did.

I know a lot of it has to do with the fact that he’s a very different kind of dog. Daisy was little and cute, I don’t know what breeds she had in her but guesses included pomeranian and cocker spaniel. Mostly she was just orange and fluffy and small, only about 12-14 lbs. And she was very low maintance. But Jimmy is part Australian Shepherd, part black lab. He’s a ball of energy and needs excercise and things to do. I wouldn’t have picked him out, honestly, but my sister gifted us with him and I was still aching so much for my Daisy dog that I accepted him. As I’ve said before, this has been a learning experience. But I still love him. Even when he does get bored and devour the blankets at 4 or 5 AM. (One of them was a wedding present :frowning: )

What I’d really like to do is see if he could be taught to be a disabled person helper dog and pick things up for me when I drop them or open drawers or fetch my shoes, not eat them. Even though I don’t have the knowledge or ability to help him become a 100% professional dog for the disabled, I’ve been trying to teach him to bring things to me instead of snatching them and running away so my husband has to chase him down. It’s his favorite game, but I’m trying to teach him it’s more rewarding to do what we want and earn praise and treats than to trick us into his games. So far, though, he prefers the games.

But cats… maybe because I’m a solitary type person myself, I appreciate a cat’s independence. But I haven’t found my cats to be that aloof or distant. When I call, they come, and purr and rub and seem happy to see me. Sometimes they leave after a few minutes, but sometimes they stay and want more. And I love it when they come running to greet me with that little half-purr, half-meow chirping sound they make. That melts my heart. They are so soft and delicate, they lay quietly with me and just soak up the attention I give them. The cats I’ve known are happy to receive attention, even if they don’t ask, beg, or demand to get it like a dog.

When I asked if you were mental, I was just teasing. This is supposed to be the BBQ Pit, afterall, and I’ve always wanted to use that line :slight_smile:


“I hope life isn’t a big joke, because I don’t get it,” Jack Handy

Gr8kt:

I didn’t take any offense at your saying I was mental. Not at all.

I’m glad to hear you love your dog, but it does sound like you have a handful. Even though your sister gave him to you as a gift, if you dont’ feel you can do the training that is obviously necessary, you might want to find him a new home. It isn’t kind to him or to you for you to remain together if you weren’t meant for each other. And if he’s as energetic and playful as you say, it sounds like he needs a different kind of environment.

As an alternative, you may want to contact a professional for some advice on how to handle him. You obviously have a very good understanding of doggy dynamics, and the fact that Jimmy is taking the alpha role, which he should not.

I really hope you work it out the best way for both of you. I intend my next dog to be a Golden retriever, expressly because I want a dog I can train the hell out of!


Stoidela

Kat- I was just attempting to send you some e mail about your new puppy, when my computer had a “fatal error” (I hate the sound of those words). Anyway, by the time I logged back on, I saw the post above, and it was pretty much what I was trying to tell you in my letter. Ask your vet if he knows any dog trainers he can refer you to.

Okay, now I really know (as if I didn’t before) that Nickrz is a dog-hater. On his homepage he gives the exact doses of chocolate necessary to kill a dog.

Charming.


Stoidela

Manny Peoples ask me . . .

Uh, er, oops, sorry - - forgot myself there for a minute.

But truly, WHY does chocolate kill dogs?

-Melin


I’m a woman phenomenally
Phenomenal woman
That’s me
(Maya Angelou)

Theobromine - ingredient in chocolate which is harmless to us and toxic to dogs.

This is something that everyone who has a dog should know, obviously. Chocolate seems harmless, and dogs certainly like it! But no, don’t give them any. (One bite of chocolate cake will do them no harm, but never give them chocolate candy, or alot of chocolate anything.)


Stoidela

I’m not trying to suggest that we all should feed our dogs chocolate, don’t get me wrong and risk hurting your pet, but I have heard that milk chocolate isn’t as bad for dogs as unsweetened baker’s chocolate. Does the milk and/or sugar help neutralize the theobromine? If your dog did get ahold of a hunk of baker’s chocolate, would it help to give him a glass of milk, like the poison control center suggests doing for some household chemicals? Or are you risking doubling the harm since some dogs are (at least Daisy was) lactose intolerant? Then again, maybe you would want to induce vomiting?

I’ve always wondered about this stuff because, despite our efforts to keep chocolate away from Daisy, and despite the fact that our wee dog was blind the last two or three years of her life, she was crafty. I once had one of those Tobler chocolate oranges and, before we went out one day, I put it on a table that I thought would be out of her reach. But, when we got back, the orange was gone. Devoured by the hound doggy. Nothing left but scaps of orange foil wrapping. I figured she’d throw up or get the runs or croak or something, but she was fine. I mean, the thing was almost as big as her head, but she didn’t even act like she had a tummy ache. I couldn’t eat that much chocolate in one sitting without serious reprocussions! She must have had a cast iron stomach :slight_smile:

So, anyway, I was just curious :slight_smile:


“I hope life isn’t a big joke, because I don’t get it,” Jack Handy

Well, according to dog-hater Nickr’s page, you are right. (The way he puts it: “recommended dosage” - aint’ that just the sweetest thing?) The concentration of throbromine is higher the darker the chocolate, with bakers’ unsweetened being the highest of all.

But why risk any? Surely dogs can stand life without chocolate - and who wants to sacrifice some yummy chocolate to a dog that won’t appreciate it anyway.

Here’s a fun treat: spread a piece of soft white bread thickly with peanut butter, then sorta stick it to the roof of yer pooch’s mouth. Watching him work it off the roof of his mouth is fun for the whole family! <grin> And believe me, he won’t mind!


Stoidela

We’ve never given Jimmy chocolate, and to the best of my knowledge he’s never gotten into any on his own. But he does love peanut butter so we put it in his kong. It holds his interest a little better than doggy biscuits, because the biscuits are usually either too small and fall out within the first couple minutes or too big and won’t come out so he loses interest quickly. But he won’t give up on peanutbutter til every last lick is gone :slight_smile:

We’ve invested much money in finding the right toys for him to keep him occupied (and from devouring the blankets, carpet, and anything else in his mouth’s way). His favorites are stuffed rottweilers from PetSmart that rattle and squeak (he loves to play fetch with them), compressed rawhide chewies (we avoid the regular rawhide bones with the knots), Pedigree Dentabone, a peanutbuttery kong, the Gummabone, and the smaller of our two cats (not really a toy but it’s hard to convince Jimmy otherwise). The Monks of New Skete recommend having only one, maybe two, toys but I confess we have so many because it’s easier to find and grab one when they’re all over the house. If we gave him just one toy, he’d hide it under the bed and go back to playing with what he’s not supposed to.

I don’t really want to give Jimmy up. I’m afraid of what someone else might do to or with him. I don’t want him to end up in a shelter where he might be put down if no one else wants to deal with him. We haven’t talked to the vet about a trainer yet, but the vet did recommend the Gentle Leader head collar which has helped adjust his attitude and make him easier for me to handle. And the vet recommended we should schedule at least 2 20 minute play sessions per day to wear him out because “a tired dog = a good dog” :slight_smile: I don’t want to be unfair to Jimmy, I want him to have a good life, but I don’t want him to end up in the hands of someone even less equipped to deal with him. So many unwanted dogs are destroyed every year, I just don’t like the odds. I keep worrying about his brothers and sisters and how the owner seemed so desperate to get rid of them…

Anyway, I love dogs, I love Jimmy, I am trying to do right by him, but I still prefer cats :slight_smile: That’s just me :slight_smile:


“I hope life isn’t a big joke, because I don’t get it,” Jack Handy

Regarding chocolate and pets…take it from me, it isn’t good for them. Around the holidays we get lots of dogs in for chocolate toxicity. If your dog eats enough chocolate all at one, it can seizure and die. Don’t try to play vet at home. If your dog eats chocolate, watch him carefully for vomiting, diarrhea, rapid breathing, seizures, and so forth. If you see any of these symptoms, get your pet to the vet. Chocolate isn’t good for ANY animal, but dogs are more frequently seen for this problem because they are more likely to get into the stuff.

I do hope things work out for you and your dog, Kat. The advice your vet gave is good, but sometimes simple tips aren’t enough. Sometimes you have to go puppy classes. Sometimes more than once. In some cases, you might have to seek help from an animal behaviorist, which is not the same thing as a dog trainer. Anyway, kiss your dog for me and give yourself a pat on the back for being a concerned pet owner.

Love,
Resident veterinary technician,
Michelle :slight_smile:

Ahem. Sorry, I was busy elsewhere and thought this thread had petered out.

Before we go any farther, let me assure you I am not a dog or a cat or an animal hater in any sense. I do not condone inhumane treatment of animals, never did. That little thing you so admirably ferreted out on my web site is called a joke, something you would be aware of had you looked at the context or if you knew anything about me at all. But no, someone stepped on your doggie’s tail, and you come out spewing vitriol from every fiber of your being. I can’t help but wonder if you actually read or understood any of my posts on this subject.

  1. Show me where and how I “maligned and disregarded animals.” The only animals I maligned were irresponsible pet owners.

  2. Show me how a careful recitation of scientific thinking about how human and lower animals’ brains differ fosters cruelty to animals, and tell me why my “attitude” should not be allowed to “persist or prevail.” Are you suggesting that emotional arguments such as your own should take precedence over science? Of course, you’ll probably make some lighthearted remark about the quality of my science, but that is only because you yourself are ignorant of the facts, and prefer to argue “My dog loves me, and if I think it, it must be so.”

  3. The only “threat” that exists here is the exposure of the willful ignorance of people who hold ideas in contempt before they examine the data. I have examined the data, what’s your excuse?

  4. Your lumping me in with those who would torture animals needlessly I dismiss as out of hand. I’ve said nothing to give rise to these accusations. Nifty straw man, though.

  5. Your clarification of your own position betrays the hypocrisy so prevalent among those of your ilk; You cannot tolerate animals “…pumped full of drugs, miserable, barely able to move…” but you’ll eat bacon from a pig that had been whacked on the head with a sledge hammer and had its throat slashed to bleed to death… that’s okay, because maybe they didn’t suffer, eh? (At least where you had to see it). Suppose you tell me where you draw the line, sister.

  6. I did not say “our superior value is all tied up in our intellect,” you did. I did not imply “people are better,” you inferred it.

Your other palaver, I’ll just simply ignore. I’ve heard it all before countless times. (I did, however, enjoy the “Nick is a dog-hater,” a common demonized enemy everyone can pile on… and I wondered if anyone would EVER read that page and take offense). The animal rights sermons get funnier and crazier the madder you-all get. :slight_smile:

PS. I have owned (and loved) very many kitty-cats in my life, and I understand our symbiotic relationship with these animals as well as you do. One might be tempted to wonder which of these various species of domesticated animals (I’m including humans) might have become extinct with or without the intervention or cooperation of the others.

Hey Nick, glad to see you decided to re-join us.

I don’t know how to do the spiffy quotes (I’ve looked everywhere some assistance on this. Anyone?) So I’ll do it the old fashioned way:

NICKRZ:
" Before we go any farther, let me assure you I am not a dog or a cat or an animal hater in any sense. "

Yet earlier we see these words from Nickrz:

“when I go to dinner at someone’s house and see their cat prancing about on the kitchen counters with its microbe-laden-hey-I-just-played-with-my-feces feet, I wonder why anyone tolerates their presence.(Not to mention the hair - gawd… no horizontal surface is immune, and every stitch of clothing you own is contaminated, what a fashion statement…)”

and this:

"Dogs? Even worse. There’s nothing more revolting than to see someone swapping spit with these disgusting creatures, unless it’s watching as a dog owner lets his/her canine pal defecate in a public park, or on my front lawn and nonchalantly walk away as if nothing had happened. Any animal that sweats through its mouth does not belong in a civilized society. "

Now, I cannot imagine what I could possibly have been thinking to jump to the conclusion that you hate dogs and cats, what with loving words like these! You have obviously made it quite plain how warmly you feel toward them, haven’t you?
“I do not condone inhumane treatment of animals, never did. That little thing you so admirably ferreted out on my web site is called a joke, something you would be aware of had you looked at the context or if you knew anything about me at all.”

If I had stumbled across the site without knowing anything else about you, I wouldn’t have thought twice about it. (I was going to say that I would have laughed, except that the “joke” was so weak that I would not have). I probably wouldn’t have even noticed the phrase “recommended dosage”. It is preceisely because I had been reading your own words that I saw the darkness in your “humor”.

“But no, someone stepped on your doggie’s tail, and you come out spewing vitriol from every fiber of your being.”

Spewing vitriol? To disagree with you, to question you, to point out the flaws in your thinking, this is vitriol? No, Nick, vitriol is when people make nasty personal attacks, question other’s intelligence, belittle them and otherwise behave badly. I invite you to do as I am doing here, and show specific examples of this “vitriol”.

“I can’t help but wonder if you actually read or understood any of my posts on this subject.”

I read them very carefully and understood them perfectly. I responded to them very specifically. It would be so much more fun if you would do likewise.

" 1. Show me where and how I ‘maligned and disregarded animals.’ The only animals I maligned were irresponsible pet owners."

I believe we’ve already been here, done this. (Really Nick, you should re-read your own posts before you get defensive)

"2. Show me how a careful recitation of scientific thinking about how human and lower animals’ brains differ fosters cruelty to animals, and tell me why my “attitude” should not be allowed to “persist or prevail.”

I give you your own words in response:

“Everything else, animate or inanimate, totally lacking intellect and free will, is not a person but a thing.
Only persons have natural and unalienable rights. These we call human rights.There is no comparable animal rights.”

(and that would be “are” no comparable animals rights)

If you view animals as things, and conclude that things do not have rights of any kind, it follows that they may be abused with impunity. And such an attitude must not be allowed to prevail for obvious reasons. At least, reasons obvious to those of us who respect and honor the rights of animals.

You speak about these things as though they were fixed truths, when in fact they are constructs of human thought, which is the only thought we truly understand, or that some of us respect. We make the rules, and we make them only because we CAN, and not for any other reason. I prefer to take the view that despite our ability to bend our environment and everything in it to our will, we are only as worthy as we make ourselves. MIght does NOT make right.

"Are you suggesting that emotional arguments such as your own should take precedence over science? "

Again, you speak as though “science” was all of one mind on this topic, and it (they, scientists) are absolutely NOT. As I said before, the research continues, and the debate rages on. (Just as one example, there have been some fascinating experiments done recently that seem to show that chimps are truly self-aware, something that “science” always assumed was exclusive to humans).

"Of course, you’ll probably make some lighthearted remark about the quality of my science, but that is only because you yourself are ignorant of the facts, and prefer to argue "My dog loves me, and if I think it, it must be so.’ "

Not at all. I eagerly read everything I can find that has anything at all to do with animals, and most especially investigations into animal intelligence and emotion. And I have no axe to grind either way; animals don’t need to prove to me that they are intelligent, “intellectual”, self-aware, or capable of human-style emotion in order for me to accept that they are beings with rights. I wish I had the quote ready at hand about animals being “other nations”, for that is how I view them. They don’t have to be like ME in order to BE and be worthy of respect, honor, and compassionate treatment.

" 3. The only “threat” that exists here is the exposure of the willful ignorance of people who hold ideas in contempt before they examine the data. I have examined the data, what’s your excuse? "

I have examined the data. It conflicts.

“4. Your lumping me in with those who would torture animals needlessly I dismiss as out of hand. I’ve said nothing to give rise to these accusations. Nifty straw man, though.”

Really? Where did I lump you with those who would torture animals?
“5. Your clarification of your own position betrays the hypocrisy so prevalent among those of your ilk; You cannot tolerate animals “…pumped full of drugs, miserable, barely able to move…” but you’ll eat bacon from a pig that had been whacked on the head with a sledge hammer and had its throat slashed to bleed to death… that’s okay, because maybe they didn’t suffer, eh? (At least where you had to see it). Suppose you tell me where you draw the line, sister.”

Be happy to, brother.

The way it works is that just about everything and everybody gets eaten by somebody or something somewhere along the way. That’s just life. As a gardener, I can nurture and care for these wonderful living things, plants, and then kill them and eat them without compunction. Same goes for animals. Killing and eating animals is a natural process of life, for us and thousands of other creatures. Where I draw the line is making an animals’ LIFE torturous just to make the end business of killing and eating them more convenient for us. (And by the way, modern animal farming is grossly unhealthy for us anyway.) I dont’ have a problem with killing the pig, but I have a huge problem with forcing that pig to live from birth to death in a cage barely big enough to hold it, much less allow it to move around, forcing it to live in a cavernous building reeking of tons of feces, never allowing it to breath clean air. And creating conditions so foul that the animal would probably die of dsiease if not pumped full of drugs. THAT I have a problem with. (Especially pigs, since pigs are very intelligent animals, and the more intelligent, the more suffering is experienced in such treatment. They have observed pigs essentially “going mad” in this situation. )

The distinction is quite clear.
"6. I did not say ‘our superior value is all tied up in our intellect,’ you did. I did not imply ‘people are better,’ you inferred it. "

Again, class, let us refer to our text:

"Any dog/cat lover who insists on applying human attributes and emotions to a lowly beast which ca

My specific, more focused response: You win.

Shalom

Well. Gosh. Not sure how to respond to that.

If you are conceding because you found my points reasonable and well-argued, then thank you. That’s extremely gracious of you. One doesn’t see much of that. (It’s no fun, but still gracious and admirable.)

If you’re conceding because it’s just too much trouble to argue, well, that’s just plain no fun at all.

But given the “Shalom”, I’ll assume it’s the former.

Shalom to you.


Stoidela

My cat’s breath smells like cat food.


“I hope life isn’t a big joke, because I don’t get it,” Jack Handy

So, after all of ths Nickrz is a cat person. Stoidela, congrats. have fun at the BBQ. :wink:


Myself? Well, I’m only prejudice against the hypocrite, and the bigiot… Yes, myself. ~Jamie Green

I didn’t have the patience to read all the above, but did want to comment on Lissa’s first response: Lissa, I find it strange that your cat is so standoffish; in my experience, cats do need attention and affection – maybe she avoids you because of the baths! Cats don’t need baths unless their outdoors cats. I’ve had 3 (died of old age) and now have two and never bathed them. One of their plusses - they bathe themselves. I like dogs too, but cats are low maintenance. I don’t want to get up at 6:00 a.m. to walk a dog (or pick up their poop). My cats sense my moods and come to me as if to comfort me when I’m down in the dumps. If your cat is strictly an indoor cat, forget the soap and water. Maybe she’ll warm up to you.

Which was my original point. Boneheads who don’t want anything but a place to post their stupid sickening cutesy pet-stories/advice do not belong in the BBQ pit. Read the wonderful diatribes of Stoidela, thou fool, and respond in kind - and come not seeking to spread your warm-fuzzies in the steaming underbelly of the SDMB unless and until you have the ability to at least read the thread.

Sycorax,
Lissa might be bathing her cat because she is allergic. My vet and allergist told me that if I want a cat, that would be the price to pay, along with continued allergy shots forever. It just seems too damn mean to the cat (and potentially dangerious to me!) to bother with.
Besides, a cat would probably give Sox a nervous breakdown…

Cats are much better than dogs, especially with a nice chianti and some fava beans!