On the question of terminology, “Aborigine” or “Aboriginal”, the rules are in a slow but constant state of flux and new government edicts at both the State and Federal level come out, from time to time, to provide all of the unenlightened citizenry with the latest ruling on what constitutes correct-speak.
For example, the latest edict from the New South Wales Govt. declares that the abbreviation “ATSI” (for Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander) should not be routinely used because New South Wales has hardly any Torres Strait Islanders. The term “Aboriginal” is now the preferred term for New South Wales. (Note that the NSW Aboriginal reps pressed for this).
However, at the Australian Commonwealth Govt. (ie. Federal) level, this is not the case, as they still have to look at the broader picture. So you can be right in one context and remain hopelessly unenlightened in another. The trick is to be aware of your surroundings at all times.
Eventually, the day might come when we can all deal with each other as individuals, but until that day comes we should all be prepared to compromise a little, keep your antennae in good working order to identify the taboo du jour, and take each case as it comes.
On the underage/consent aspect, the Judge was probably right to not press the point too hard, despite all of the modern trappings (shotgun, welfare) surrounding the disputing family groups involved.
Aboriginal customs, whether we like it or not, are slowly succumbing to the dominant European culture surrounding it, and modern Aboriginals have already left a large part of their tribal heritage behind.
But what is European culture, anyway. It has not remained a constant. After all, how well do you think any of you would cope if you suddenly found yourself in 16th Century London (or any other European city of that period). That’s European “culture”, but there’s an even money chance you wouldn’t survive a week.
I, for one, am happy that the European culture of the 16th C (or 17th C-19th C for that matter) is no longer with us.
There are a number of Aboriginals who have no desire to live under the “old ways” but they do not form a part of any action group that currently has the ear of government.