Children's books that you dread reading aloud for fear of crying

I have a book called ‘If I Die, Will I Get Better?’ It’s written by a little boy and his Dad. The little boy did the illustrations, and supplied some of the writing. It’s about his journey through the death of his little brother. There’s nothing mawkish about it at all (it’s simple and doesn’t pull any punches), and it’s a little surreal in a couple of parts, because it’s seen through a child’s eyes. Just talking about it makes me tear up. I could never read it to my daughter.

I did want to donate it to a hospital, where it could help kids in the same situation, but they won’t take secondhand books (it was secondhand when we bought it). One day I’ll probably end up giving it to a kid who’s facing such a death. The thought of that makes me tear up, too.

Ditto The Velveteen Rabbit. I can’t even THINK about that book without getting onion-eyed.

I Love You Forever - because it was my late sister Elspeth who first gave it to my Mum, who then gave a copy to my sister Margaret to read to her kids. Then, when we were expecting our oldest in 1999, it was my Mum who gave me a copy. I hadn’t actually read it, and inside was a note from Mum explaining how Elspeth had given her the book when it first came out. I tried reading it to my daughter Sarah, but it choked me up too much.

Then, after my Mum died in 2001, I couldn’t read it in front of anybody. I’ve explained to both my kids why that’s one book I don’t think I’ll ever be able to get through without crying.

Unrelated - the first time I ever heard the song “If I had $1,000,000.” by the Barenaked Ladies was the night my friend Graeme died. My wife had bought the indie cassette from this really cool band she heard on the street corner. I loved the album, but the whole time listening to it that first night, I could only think about how much Graeme would have enjoyed it. Not a kid’s book, but that’s a song that still makes me cry after almost 20 years…

This is why I didn’t read sad books to my kids.

We had all been at a local historical village and just got home. There was a message on the machine to call my bro, and I learned that another brother had died. Lord knows, I knew I should be sad, but I was surrounded by two 2-yr-olds and a 6-yr-old who were loving and enjoying life and couldn’t understand Death if I tried to explain it, so my tears were delayed.

I don’t think little kids need to be forced to confront Death, and I’m pissed at the vast number of authors who disagree with me.

That’s it exactly. I tear up every time I read it.

Why? Because it’s about enduring unconditional love, and because I didn’t know I could love anyone in quite the way that I love my son. This book makes adults cry, but not necessarily because they’re so sad, and I don’t think it’s a sad book for kids. I’d think it’s very positive, in fact - love and traditions passing from generation to generation.

Maurice Sendaks’ illustrated version of [http://www.amazon.com/Dear-Mili-Wilhelm-Grimm/dp/0060543124](Dear Milli). I received this book as a young girl from my grandfather, I read it and liked it, but it wasn’t till I re-read the book as a teenager that Sendak illustrates it as a homage to the destruction of the holocaust, the parts of the illustrations I missed when I was young.

The story itself reads as a bit homey and preachy as a religious allegory, but the illustrations make the tale different and applies a broader meaning.

All these things are true, but when I get to the lines about Mili and her mother at the end, the sniffling commences.

Never heard of Love you Forever before this thread; the Amazon review pageis quite fascinating. A large majority love the book but about 20% hate it and say it’s weird and creepy especially the bit about the mother climbing into her grown son’s room when he is sleeping. I haven’t read the book so I can’t comment but that part did sound very odd to me as well.

Not a book, just a (very) short story:

The Selfish Giant by Oscar Wilde


EVERY afternoon, as they were coming from school, the children used to go and play in the Giant’s garden.

It was a large lovely garden, with soft green grass. Here and there over the grass stood beautiful flowers like stars, and there were twelve peach-trees that in the spring-time broke out into delicate blossoms of pink and pearl, and in the autumn bore rich fruit. The birds sat on the trees and sang so sweetly that the children used to stop their games in order to listen to them. “How happy we are here!” they cried to each other.

One day the Giant came back. He had been to visit his friend the Cornish ogre, and had stayed with him for seven years. After the seven years were over he had said all that he had to say, for his conversation was limited, and he determined to return to his own castle. When he arrived he saw the children playing in the garden.

“What are you doing here?” he cried in a very gruff voice, and the children ran away.

“My own garden is my own garden,” said the Giant; “any one can understand that, and I will allow nobody to play in it but myself.” So he built a high wall all round it, and put up a notice-board.

TRESPASSERS WILL BE PROSECUTED

He was a very selfish Giant.

The poor children had now nowhere to play. They tried to play on the road, but the road was very dusty and full of hard stones, and they did not like it. They used to wander round the high wall when their lessons were over, and talk about the beautiful garden inside. “How happy we were there,” they said to each other.

Then the Spring came, and all over the country there were little blossoms and little birds. Only in the garden of the Selfish Giant it was still winter. The birds did not care to sing in it as there were no children, and the trees forgot to blossom. Once a beautiful flower put its head out from the grass, but when it saw the notice-board it was so sorry for the children that it slipped back into the ground again, and went off to sleep. The only people who were pleased were the Snow and the Frost. “Spring has forgotten this garden,” they cried, “so we will live here all the year round.” The Snow covered up the grass with her great white cloak, and the Frost painted all the trees silver. Then they invited the North Wind to stay with them, and he came. He was wrapped in furs, and he roared all day about the garden, and blew the chimney-pots down. “This is a delightful spot,” he said, “we must ask the Hail on a visit.” So the Hail came. Every day for three hours he rattled on the roof of the castle till he broke most of the slates, and then he ran round and round the garden as fast as he could go. He was dressed in grey, and his breath was like ice.

“I cannot understand why the Spring is so late in coming,” said the Selfish Giant, as he sat at the window and looked out at his cold white garden; “I hope there will be a change in the weather.”

But the Spring never came, nor the Summer. The Autumn gave golden fruit to every garden, but to the Giant’s garden she gave none. “He is too selfish,” she said. So it was always Winter there, and the North Wind, and the Hail, and the Frost, and the Snow danced about through the trees.

One morning the Giant was lying awake in bed when he heard some lovely music. It sounded so sweet to his ears that he thought it must be the King’s musicians passing by. It was really only a little linnet singing outside his window, but it was so long since he had heard a bird sing in his garden that it seemed to him to be the most beautiful music in the world. Then the Hail stopped dancing over his head, and the North Wind ceased roaring, and a delicious perfume came to him through the open casement. “I believe the Spring has come at last,” said the Giant; and he jumped out of bed and looked out.

What did he see?

He saw a most wonderful sight. Through a little hole in the wall the children had crept in, and they were sitting in the branches of the trees. In every tree that he could see there was a little child. And the trees were so glad to have the children back again that they had covered themselves with blossoms, and were waving their arms gently above the children’s heads. The birds were flying about and twittering with delight, and the flowers were looking up through the green grass and laughing. It was a lovely scene, only in one corner it was still winter. It was the farthest corner of the garden, and in it was standing a little boy. He was so small that he could not reach up to the branches of the tree, and he was wandering all round it, crying bitterly. The poor tree was still quite covered with frost and snow, and the North Wind was blowing and roaring above it. “Climb up! little boy,” said the Tree, and it bent its branches down as low as it could; but the boy was too tiny.

And the Giant’s heart melted as he looked out. “How selfish I have been!” he said; “now I know why the Spring would not come here. I will put that poor little boy on the top of the tree, and then I will knock down the wall, and my garden shall be the children’s playground for ever and ever.” He was really very sorry for what he had done.

So he crept downstairs and opened the front door quite softly, and went out into the garden. But when the children saw him they were so frightened that they all ran away, and the garden became winter again. Only the little boy did not run, for his eyes were so full of tears that he did not see the Giant coming. And the Giant stole up behind him and took him gently in his hand, and put him up into the tree. And the tree broke at once into blossom, and the birds came and sang on it, and the little boy stretched out his two arms and flung them round the Giant’s neck, and kissed him. And the other children, when they saw that the Giant was not wicked any longer, came running back, and with them came the Spring. “It is your garden now, little children,” said the Giant, and he took a great axe and knocked down the wall. And when the people were going to market at twelve o’clock they found the Giant playing with the children in the most beautiful garden they had ever seen.

All day long they played, and in the evening they came to the Giant to bid him good-bye.

“But where is your little companion?” he said: “the boy I put into the tree.” The Giant loved him the best because he had kissed him.

“We don’t know,” answered the children; “he has gone away.”

“You must tell him to be sure and come here tomorrow,” said the Giant. But the children said that they did not know where he lived, and had never seen him before; and the Giant felt very sad.

Every afternoon, when school was over, the children came and played with the Giant. But the little boy whom the Giant loved was never seen again. The Giant was very kind to all the children, yet he longed for his first little friend, and often spoke of him. “How I would like to see him!” he used to say.

Years went over, and the Giant grew very old and feeble. He could not play about any more, so he sat in a huge armchair, and watched the children at their games, and admired his garden. “I have many beautiful flowers,” he said; “but the children are the most beautiful flowers of all.”

One winter morning he looked out of his window as he was dressing. He did not hate the Winter now, for he knew that it was merely the Spring asleep, and that the flowers were resting.

Suddenly he rubbed his eyes in wonder, and looked and looked. It certainly was a marvellous sight. In the farthest corner of the garden was a tree quite covered with lovely white blossoms. Its branches were all golden, and silver fruit hung down from them, and underneath it stood the little boy he had loved.

Downstairs ran the Giant in great joy, and out into the garden. He hastened across the grass, and came near to the child. And when he came quite close his face grew red with anger, and he said, “Who hath dared to wound thee?” For on the palms of the child’s hands were the prints of two nails, and the prints of two nails were on the little feet.

“Who hath dared to wound thee?” cried the Giant; “tell me, that I may take my big sword and slay him.”

“Nay!” answered the child; “but these are the wounds of Love.”

“Who art thou?” said the Giant, and a strange awe fell on him, and he knelt before the little child.

And the child smiled on the Giant, and said to him, “You let me play once in your garden, today you shall come with me to my garden, which is Paradise.”

And when the children ran in that afternoon, they found the Giant lying dead under the tree, all covered with white blossoms.

I just finished a two-month-long reading of The Tale of Despereaux to my second-grade class. It’s not a particularly sad book, but it’s lovely, and I admit I got a little verklempt on the last couple of pages. My voice shook.

At the end the children applauded and kept asking me if there was a sequel I could read to them, though, so the verklemptitude was on my part.

If you take it literally it’s very weird (iirc she loads up a ladder onto her car, drives across town and climbs in through his bedroom window, then rocks him like a baby while he’s asleep) but I always took this as kind of the prose equivalent of a caricature, like you know this guy’s nose isn’t the size of his forearm but the cartoonish exaggeration gets the message across better.

I first read this book in a department store when I was 10 or so and it made me cry. It’s a bit embarrassing to be seen crying in a department store! Thank God I managed to stop before my parents came to get me.

I did not need that right now :frowning:

The Caretakers of Wonder by Cooper Edens.

It’s about all the people who make the beautiful things in nature happen behind the scenes. The last page is,

That one. And The Giving Tree. The tree is so good to the boy, and the boy is such a selfish dick about it. It’s actually kind of a sick story.

I had this book growing up, and read it, but I don’t remember anything about it anymore except… wasn’t Julie in some bad sexual situation that she ran away from? Like married off to an older man against her will or something?

My wife has a really hard time reading The Giving Tree. I agree with her on that one.

Also, you’re gonna have to count me in on the “I will love you forever” creepiness.

Yeah, like the OP, anything to do with dogs. Heck, I made a giant ass of myself on the streets of Edinburgh telling my dad the story of Greyfriars’ Bobby.

The last chapter in The House at Pooh Corner makes me cry and cry, and I don’t entirely know why. Partly it’s because Pooh realises that Christopher Robin has outgrown him, but is content to wait behind, knowing that he’ll be returned to less and less, knowing that he can offer only love, because he doesn’t understand the new things Christoper Robin is learning at school.

Reading the Pooh stories, but especially the last one, also remind me of my father reading them to me, and explaining that Winnie the Pooh and all those characters were made up by AA Milne for his son, just like my father made up stories for me. That’s not a memory that makes me sad, just a little wistful.

Actually Patterson wrote Bridge based on something that happened to her son when he was a kid. His best friend was killed by lightening.

Jesus Christ man. Just the title of that one is enough.

But anyway, I’m with dropzone about this kind of thing. These kids-weepies are often written more for the sake of the adults reading them to the kids than they are to the kids themselves. I would feel insincere and hypocritical reading one to one of my kids. (Not necessarily talking about the one referenced in the quote above–haven’t read that one and scifisam2009 says it’s not mawkish so I’ll take his word for it.)

With apologies to previous posters, I find “Love you Forever” to be one of the worst offenders in this regard. That book is all about (and for) the parent. There’s nothing for a kid to get out of it, at all.

The Giving Tree at least has some interesting ambiguities to get a thoughtful kid thinking. But on the surface reading most people take away from it, it, too is one of these mawkish books I don’t think are really for kids but more for the adults reading them to the kids. Mawkish Parental Fantasy. MPF.

In addition to Love You Forever (my husband has to read that to our son, I can’t get through it without getting all choked up), I have yet to get through On the Night You Were Born. Okay, I can’t actually get through the description of it on Amazon without crying, turns out. It’s just a lovely little book about how the whole world rejoiced when “you” were born, and how you are unique and special and loved. We got it for our son for his first Christmas and I don’t think he’s ever heard the whole thing because it makes me all sobb-y.

Also, I have a hard time getting through Make Way for Ducklings. Those policemen, what a nice thing to do for a little family of ducks! I can usually hold it together, but eventually my son will be old enough to catch on to the fact that something funny happens to Mama’s voice when she reads certain books…