One would hope that a parent, or responsible adult, would be judicious in deciding what kind of information a child is ready for, at what age or period of mental and psychological development. Or are you advocating an absolute, uncensored free-for-all from birth, hardcore porn, gore, torture, whatever? A lot of people in this thread seem to cleaving desperately to a false dichotomy: either “censorship” is total, or it’s completely absent. That, frankly, is bullshit. I don’t have kids, but I’ve done an AWFUL lot of babysitting in my days, and I have a good sense, I think, of what kind of issues can be productively discussed with children at what stages of development. With a lot of individual variation of course. But the kind of judgment that allows us to accept or reject incoming information based on its respective value is a learned capacity. That kind of analytical thinking is not necessarily expected of, say, your average seven year old, so I hardly think it’s the kind of evil censorship the hysterics in this thread are lamenting to put such entertainments as, oh say Last Exit to Brooklyn and Birth of a Nation aside until I think the child in question is ready to take them in analytically.
To indicate how generally opposed I am to censorship, even with children, let me tell you a story.
Russell Hoban, one of my favorite authors, wrote a children’s book called Big John Turkle. (My copy was recently thrown away by a cleaning service; it goes for $430 on Amazon used.
) In it, a snapping turtle makes himself miserable by comparing everything in his life to his misty memory of a bite of lobster salad, which fell overboard from a rowboat one day long ago. No matter what it is, it’s *not *lobster salad. At one point, he sees a crow playing joyfully with a Willow Pattern cup handle (with quite of bit of the cup besides), and he tries to dampen the crow’s spirits–the crow calls it a Work of Art–by pointing out that, Work of Art or not, it’s not lobster salad. In the end, Big John steals the cup handle from the crow, takes it to the bottom of the pond, crawls into bed, and sets his alarm clock for Spring. As he rolls over, he takes one last look at the Willow Pattern cup handle, and says to himself, “Well, it’s not lobster salad, but at least Jim Crow hasn’t got it.” The End.
I showed this book to my sister, who had 7-year-old twins. She was appalled, and forbade me to read it to them. I told her she was wrong: that if you limited your kids’ input to only POSITIVE examples, they’d never learn to think analytically; they’d only ever learn to accept what they’re given at face value. She agreed to let me read to her kids, under her supervision. I read them the story, and the first reaction at the end was, “Why is Big John so sad?” This led to a pretty sophisticated discussion about depression, and how to deal with your own negative feelings without taking them out on other people, and how to live with disappointment, etc.
So I firmly believe in not “shielding” children from negative information. But I believe just as firmly in exposing them to it judiciously and conscientiously. Where I would read them Big John Turkle, but not unexpurgated Mary Poppins, at least at a very young age, is because Big John Turkle is specifically written to address such negative issues; Mary Poppins presents them as perfectly acceptable, and as innocuous entertainment. The author of the former is “on your side,” in a word, whereas the author of the latter is working at cross purposes to you; there’s a second layer of meaning and intention to get through. Personally I’d wait till a child was a little more sophisticated in their analytical thinking before I tackled that with them.