I’m Jewish. If I had a son, I would have him circumcised by a mohel, and a full bris milah service.
I have attended several brises, and since I was a candy striper who spent a year on Maternity, I have also seen a couple of hospital circumcisions.
The last two brises I was at, the baby didn’t even cry-- as for the anesthesia question, he is given a little wine-- very little, but with a baby, it doesn’t take much. Also, mohels do many more circumcisions than ob/gyns, so I assume they probably do them quicker and better.
At every bris I’ve been to, the baby is picked up immediately, and often given to the mother to nurse; also, he’s held by another human being during the actual cutting.
In the hospital-- geez, I’ll never forget this one time-- the doctor snipped the baby right in his bassinet, then LEFT HIM THERE-- screaming, incidentally. He just lay there crying, no one picked him up. The doctor looked over a chart, then told the nurse to wait five minutes, diaper him, and return him to the nursery. It was awful.
As far as men-- I’ve slept with Jewish men who were of course, circumcised, and two gentiles, one of each variety.
Over-all, I’d say that the Jewish men were better lovers, and not as much in a hurry, so I was more, well, lubricated, and we never had any problems.
Now, two men are not much of a sample, but I remember one guy-- and he was only ninteen, but he happened to be the snipped one-- was always so raring to go that we had to use additional lubricant. Notice I’m not seeing him anymore.
The other guy, uncut, I didn’t need lubricant with. He was a better lover, though, than the other goy, so maybe it was me. Again, that’s not much of a sample, but hey-- now that I’ve opened up the topic, so to speak, any more women want to contribute?
–Rowan
Shopping is still cheaper than therapy. --my Aunt Franny