While I feel very strongly that routine infant circumcision is wrong, I don’t want to turn this into an argument. So here is my opinion.
The trials you mention are not large enough to warant scientific validation. (as far as I know)
The trials were conducted in a culture where many men think that using a condom is unmanly. Condom use there is extremely low. Many don’t even get the connection between sex and AIDS and why protection might be important.
I agree that 9 yo is an age that does not warant circumcision. He is not sexually active yet so there is no rush. It is also to young to really understand what any benefits might be or to really give consent about a lifelong body changing event. Plus, I bet his reaction would be… “YOU WANT TO CUT WHAT OFF!?! HELL NO!”
I am not circumcised and holy cow, I don’t have AIDS! It can be done. In fact, if you are mature enough to have sex, you are mature enough to make decisions about sexual protection.
At a certain age in a few years, your son will be able to make a circumcision decision for himself. If he is not mature enough to make that choice himself, then he is not mature enough to have sex.
Circumcision is a one way street (we’ll ignore the Tug Ahoy for now). If you decide for your son, he will never get to make the decision for himself. Many folks on both sides of the procedure are unhappy with their status, but only one group can actually change their status. I am glad to be uncircumcised because I get to make the decision myself… and I think that I will get circumcised soon, when I get the money and nerves together (for my own personal reasons - but at least I can choose).
Circumcision is not the best way to prevent AIDS, education is.
And if the AIDS rates were 50% higher for uncircumcised folks in America or England for instance, a simple survey would have revealed this long ago. I am not aware of any such monumental discovery.
Also, may I advise that you tell your son what circumcision is? I didn’t know anything about it and for the longest time growing up in the midwest, I thought I was a little misshappen
Now-a-days, circumcision is less common than it used to be, so this probably isn’t as much of a problem for kids these days.