I’ll add a little more: In chess, the skirmish is the war. The board is only 8x8, and every piece affects every other piece. In Go, some stones are in places that only have local effect, and the most important thing is to balance territory and influence, and sometimes, it’s more important to keep the influence and lose some pieces and territory, in order to win in the end.
This is mostly why computers are so bad at Go; they cannot recognise influence. To put things in perspective, what you’re talking about in Go is placing one pawn in the middle of a 19x19 board. Sure, it has some local effect, but does it affect the other side of the board? Will it turn into a territory that will form a base that can attack, and survive?
Not much, I’d say, after all, in an even match, what you can see, you opponent can see as well. Unless you can read the moves further than him, or if the move looks like it’s meant to do one thing but actually has another effect as well - however, if the other person is careful and reads out everything, I don’t see them getting surprised.
Pretty easy. If you think you can kill it, at the end of the game, try to kill it. At most, you kill it, at least, neither of you will gain anything. And it will then be obvious who lives and dies.
Good luck. =P
In Chess, every piece can only move in however many ways. In Go, you can place a stone on literally 19x19 spaces on the board. Some of those potential moves will be worthless, some will be the turning points of the game. Some sequences are a given as well, for example, if you threaten a large group, you can surely expect your opponent to try to save his group. I must say that what to do next comes with practice, soon, patterns will emerge, and you will be able to know what you “should” do, and then you will be able to read ahead. The best exercise for this is to read ladders. In ladders, either you win the ladder or you do not, there is always only one possible move, so they are easy to read, but strenous.
Be careful that you opponent doesn’t use that expectation of what you “should” do to pull off a trick play, though.
Play online as often as you can… I’m on the KGS server (google “KGS”), we’ll see if we meet up some day. 