It depends on the region-recognition of the player. Players coded to recognized a fixed region whill only play DVDs coded for that region (or Region 0, which is equivalent to an uncoded DVD). Some DVD players are multiregion, which means that they will play DVDs encoded for any region. Some single region players can be hacked (sometimes quite easily) to play all regions - there’s a large number of websites and discussion forums out there detailing how to do this for various makes and models of players.
Probably not. Certainly I know that European videotapes won’t play in American players, or vice-versa.
The difference is in the video signals. North American televisions use a standard called NTSC, while Europeans use PAL/SECAM. They are not compatible. See this site for a list of “who uses what”.
No, regional coding on DVD’s is different from the video signals. Besides, on modern (non US) machinery, PAL and the various NTSC variants don’t matter much anymore. The rest of the world has just acknowledged that the US uses a different (inferior) system, and built support for it into their products. My 10+ year old TV supports both, my last three video recorders play either, and convert on the fly if I so request, and so on. It wouldn’t surprise me if US manufacturers are insular enough that they don’t support anything except NTSC, though.
The OP mentions that the discs in question claim region 1. That is North America, and the reason the seller pointed out that you needed a multi-region player is probably that otherwise it would be difficult to use them in Europe (where one’s supposed to use region 2 only).
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It seems to me like this region thingy is becoming less and less of a problem. Most DVD-players I see advertised are region-free and the DVD’s on sale seem to be a mix of region1 and region2. (I’m in Europe, where it’s supposed to be only region2.)
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