You have been told plenty. But did you require each claim to meet principles even taught in junior high science? If he says something without technical reasons why (based in well proven science) and without numbers (perspective), then it is probably a lie or urban myth.
Same urban myths also proved smoking cigarettes increase health. Over 60% of us knew that was true. Their feelings confirmed it. Then viciously attacked the Surgeon General for exposing that urban myth.
If any part is damaged by low voltage or power off, then quote spec numbers and datasheet facts that say so. No replies exist for one simple reason. Reality is found elsewhere. Not in feeling, hearsay, speculation, or claims made without numbers.
Power off sequences store unsaved data. Then hardware suffers a sudden power off. Makes no difference whether that power off is from an internal transistor cutoff, or a yanked plug, or a nuclear power plant shutdown. All are sudden power offs.
Again, an international design standard, that existed long before PCs even existed, says it in all capital letters: No Damage Region. Those standards even provided specific numbers. Unfortunately, too many believe a first thing told rather than learn how to separate lies from reality. Too many forget that answers without perspective (the numbers) and facts based in proven science is best called junk science.
Ignoring the challenge makes a conclusion obvious. Show me science, datasheets, or numbers that prove a sudden power off or low voltage is destructive to electronics. Nobody does for one simple reason. All power offs are sudden and not harmful.
Voltage can drop so low that incandescent bulbs dim to 50% intensity. Notice more numbers. Even that voltage is ideal and sufficient for all electronics as required by design standards and because of how electronics work. If voltage drops lower, then electronics simply power off - without harm.
Same concept applies to the OP. He is at wits ends due to speculation. By not “following the evidence”. A useful answer without speculation is possible in mintues. Provided if requested. Using a tool that actually ‘sees’ the defect. A defect must be identified before any solution is implemented. Then the solution is quick. And a reason for that defect is also learned. Doing this even shows why “sudden power offs does not cause electronic hardware damage”.