Given the numbers of unvaxxed and unmasked that are preventing us from getting to herd immunity, I also feel like it’s a situation where a bad guy is pointing a gun at an innocent third party and saying I have to stay in my house and wear a mask in public, or they will kill the innocent person. I mean, I don’t want them to kill anyone, but if they do, it isn’t my fault. It’s the killer’s fault.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m still masking (and have upgraded the whole family’s masks to N95 equivalents) and we don’t go to large gatherings, or see people unmasked. We all are vaccinated/getting vaccinated/getting boosters. We are currently doing our part. But it’s at an enormous cost, and we can’t just keep doing it indefinitely. I have two 8-year-olds, and this is taking a big toll on them. A quarter of their lives now has been spent in at least semi-lockdown. Last year, I saw a four-year-old run away screaming from my kids at the park when my (masked) kids got within about 10 feet of her. She was terrified of other kids getting too close to her. It’s heartbreaking. This is an enormous cost. There are other huge social costs, including certainly deaths caused by these restrictions. It’s not just, are you against covid killing people or not.
It isn’t such a simple, if you are against deaths, you are happy to do indefinite lockdown/masking/etc.
If there is not sufficient political will to require every non-medically exempt person to get vaccinated (and I don’t think there is) how long can those people essentially hold the rest of us hostage on the threat of killing people? It’s not my fault, or the fault of anyone I know, that we can’t achieve herd immunity. And I would support a universal vaccination requirement, so I’m for the thing that would let us all get back to (relatively) normal.
At this point, I am hoping that omicron will be very very mild and will run through the unvaccinated, and will produce decent immunity from further infection, and that then we can get back to something resembling normal, but with a few new-normal changes. I know that people will die when that happens, and a) I’m doing what I personally can to prevent deaths, and b) it is going to happen regardless of exactly how it happens – the unvaccinated/unprotected will eventually get it. I know that it happening fast is bad due to hospitals being overwhelmed, but that’s already happening with delta. Assuming omicron is more mild than delta, even if it is more contagious, it could wind up being beneficial to have it become the dominant variant.
Again, I’m still doing all the things. I just am not on board with doing them indefinitely when the reason it’s indefinite is a group of people I have no control over, basically holding the rest of us hostage.