Ah Cyros …No darlin’ you are most certainly not the only one. I have been having a real difficult time emotionally with this pregnancy. I think I was bombarded by those “blow sunshine up your ass” (aptly put!!) women that you mentioned…That probably added to my guilt and feelings of, “Gee, what’s wrong with me? Why am I not loving this? I don’t hear harps playing damnit!!”…The bottom line is that everyone is different - and I should have known that I would be, since I don’t ususally respond the way everyone does anyway. I don’t like weddings that much. I don’t think all brides are beautiful. I don’t think all babies are cute for that matter…I think it’s perfectly natural that I would be kicking and screaming through my entire pregnancy now that I think of it!
I call my little one “the freeloader”…I’m sure I’m going to hell in an express hand basket for that as well… 
Jessity , just have your friend look at this thread. I’m sure it will make her see that there is nothing wrong with her at all. Plenty of women that feel the same way as she does.