More eerie than creepy.
The hospital was old, and still used semi-private rooms. When one of the two beds was vacated, the housekeepers (we worked in pairs) would go in a clean that side of the room, plus the bathroom. In a pinch, we could do it in about 10 minutes. The standard time was 20. If there was a patient in the other bed, however, and that patient wanted to talk, we were encouraged to spend more time. Sometimes patients felt the nurses were too busy and they didn’t want to take up their time, and it wasn’t unusual for them to feel more comfortable talking to the support staff. On occasion they would tell us some vital detail that they hadn’t mentioned to the nurse, and we would pass that information along.
One night my partner–call her Anna–and I were sent to clean the B bed in a certain room. We entered to find a very elderly woman sitting up in the A bed. She immediately engaged us in conversation, asking us if we were married, if we had children, if we liked our job. I can’t remember now how old she said she was, but she was past 100. She was clearly frail, but mentally very sharp. She told us how she had been a teacher at a one room school, and had married the superintendent. Married women were not permitted to teach in that time and place, so she and her husband had moved to another state which would allow her to continue teaching.
We ended up spending a half hour with her, cleaning the room at a leisurely pace and chatting with her. When we finally finished, Anna said, “We enjoyed talking to you. I hope you get to go home soon, but if you don’t, I hope we can talk to you again.”
The woman kind of smiled and stretched. “Oh, I expect you’ll see me again. I’ve been here quite a while, and I think they’ll keep me a while longer.”
The next day, the B bed in that room again became vacant, and even though the room wasn’t in our area, Anna and I immediately volunteered to clean it. As we approached the room, a cna was leaving. We walked in, and the woman was sitting up in bed…with the classic far-off gaze of someone deep in dementia.
The change was so dramatic that I went back out and found the cna, asking her, “Did something happen to Mrs. Schultz?”
The cna shrugged and said, “She has Alzheimer’s.” I told her about our conversation with her the night before, and the cna looked puzzled. “I’ve never had her as a patient before, but my understanding is that this is how she always is.”
I returned to the room, and Anna and I cleaned it. We spoke to Mrs. Schultz several times, but she never responded or showed any sign of recognition. When we finished, the cna flagged us down, saying, “You know, I think you should talk to her RN and tell her what you saw.”
I found the RN and explained what had happened. The RN looked not just puzzled, but bewildered. She said, “I wasn’t here last night, but I’ve had her as a patient several times and I’ve never known her to speak or respond in any way.” Okay, so that’s strange.
A day or two later, the RN waved me down. She told me she had charted what I had told her, and she also said she had spoken to the RN and cna who had been there that night, as well as others who had had contact with Mrs. Schultz, and none of them had seen what we had seen. I said, “I’m sure it was the same person.” She said, yes, the age and social history matched.
So, the upshot of it all was that here was an individual coming into the final stage of Alzheimer’s who became lucid for approximately half an hour, knew who she was, knew where she was–and Anna and I were the only ones to see it.