Our local school system is having a workshop on Cyberbullying:
“Cyberbullying: A Workshop for Parents/ Guardians on the Risks Involved and
Protective Factors, sponsored by the School Counseling and Guidance
Department, will be held on Tuesday, January 9, 2007 at 7:15 PM in the
Middle School Forum. A guest speaker from the Virginia
Department of State Police will speak with parents of middle and high
school students on the risks involved with Internet usage (specifically
cyberbullying) and protective factors to help prevent children from being
bullied on the Internet. This workshop is not intended for children, but
for parents and guardians only.”
How can you be bullyed over the Internet? If it’s IMs, just block the user. If it’s e-mails, just filter the messages, or delete them. Seems like much ado over nothing.
I don’t know much, but as I understand it, cyberbullying includes classmates spreading e-mail rumors about you or posting embarrassing things about you on their own websites. There’s a lot less you can do about that than with stuff that comes directly to you.
Cyberbullying isn’t just confined to kids. Some adults here on the SDMB routinely engage in this also. There is a certain web site (The Site Which Must Not Be Named) created by some anonymous dopers that is dedicated to talking vicious trash about other dopers.
The kids at least have somewhat of an excuse - they’re kids. The hateful adults bashing fellow dopers, however, should be truly ashamed.
Well, I guess the Cyberbullying probably starts with regular teasing and bullying and the cyber part is just a manifestation of that. I could see how defaming web pages would hurt kids unless they were very thick-skinned.
Yea, I guess it’s just extortion by another name. But if I’m going to tell everybody you’re a slut, does it really matter whether I do it face to face or on the internet?
And what if I decide to go around telling people you’re a slut, not because I want anything from you, but just because I think you’re a slut and want to talk to other people about how slutty you are.
*The “you” and “I” in the above post were a generalized “you” and “I” I have no particular knowledge of Enugent’s slutiness or lack thereof.
Let’s see, I’ve seen people spread gossip about people accusing them of various crimes, sexual indiscretions, mental illness, physical deformities. I’ve seen people accused of being child molestors, and/or abusers, for example.
Sure, it would hurt somebody. But it’s not bullying…it’s not physically hurting them or threatening them with physical pain. It’s hurting their feelings, it’s hurting their self esteem or their sense of self-worth, maybe, but it’s not physically painful.
How can someone be bullied over the Internet? Ask the “dog poop” girl here in South Korea. Her life was made a living hell when pictures of her critter’s mess on the subway car were plastered all over the 'net. The reason people got upset with her was because she just left the mess there.
There’s also the aspect of people saying things anonymously that they wouldn’t dare say to their victim’s face.
Blocking IMs does nothing if the bully changes usernames. Ditto for e-mails. And what with zero-tolerance policies, all it takes is a Photoshopped image of someone appearing to do something illegal to make that person’s life a living hell with school and family, if not with the law.
Some the things Guin mentioned are slander or lible though. That is illegal, and a form of bullying***** too, since it’s used to cause emotional distress and harass the person. The loss of one’s personal reputation is not a thing to be lightly dismissed, and there are legal recourses a victim of slander or lible can take to remedy it. Here is a page from the bullyonline site about cyberbullying.
*****See the full list here, these are the especially pertinent bits:
Bracketed text in dark red font is my thoughts, and not part of bullyonline.
All of these things can be applied to some extent to what is done by cyberbullies online, that is what the aggressor is doing. Even those bullies who shrug and say they harass their victims “just for kicks” still have some of those traits.
I think you overestimate most people’s skill with Photoshop. Most Photoshopped fakes are fairly obvious and look like a yearbook photo pasted onto a magazine ad.
Still, even if it’s an obvious fake, most people don’t like pictures of their head on some dude having sex with a donkey.
