In The Dark Knight, the Joker kidnaps Rachel, the assistant DA and love interest for both Bruce Wayne and Harvey Dent. Batman beats the information out of the Joker and rushes to her rescue . . .
only to discover that the Joker had sent him to where Dent (who’d also been captured) was being held. The bombs at both locations expode. Dent is horrible injured, and Rachel is killed outright.
In the novella Borders of Infinity, by Lois McMaster Bujold, Miles infiltrates a prison camp. He gets everyone out on shuttle craft, except for one prisoner, Tris, who slips from his grip. In a later book, he realizes that if she hadn’t, she would have pulled him out and they both would have died.
It’s only implied in the theatrical version, but if I recall, in the extended version it is mentioned that Jill Layton was killed in the machine gun blast that occurred when they came to take Sam.
On the TV series Lost, teenage Alex was captured by the mercenaries sent to kill her adoptive father Ben. They have a gun to her head and demand he surrendur. In an attempt to bluff, he tells them “She’s not really my daughter, go ahead and shoot her.” So they do. The horrified look on his face afterwards shows he never thought they’d actually do it.
In Fritz Leiber’s novel Conjure Wife, the hero fails, by a minute, to save his wife from a terrible fate. I understand they made two movies from this though I’ve never seen either of them.
I recall a sci-fi novel called IIRC Peacekeepers where a terrorist group whose leader has a nuke wired to a deadman switch (his heart stops, it goes off) captures a female Peacekeeper and they use threats to her so the protagonist surrenders to them. When he discovers she’s already been raped & beaten to death he uses a concealed weapon to fatally wound the terrorist leader, and has just enough time to say to the shocked leader “Did you think you were the only one willing to die for his beliefs?” before the bomb goes off.
I recall many years ago watching a scene where Superman stops a train and commenting to my brother "I can see the headline now; ‘SUPERMAN STOPS TRAIN! HUNDREDS REDUCED TO JELLY!’ "
I think it’s trumped by being an example of “Initial Failure/Eventual Success” cliche (called by my friends A “Space Camp”). Sure she is A damsel in distress… but not THE damsel in distress.
Teri Hatcher in Tomorrow Never Dies and Aki (“Poison drip girl”) in You Only Live Twice. In addition to the many other Bond girls mentioned, I think Sir James is a trifle overrated as an action hero.
Also: Sally McMillan in McMillan and Wife (thereafter just McMillan).
And if there’s ever a “dead moms” thread, tuck these away for future use: Joyce in Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Andie McDowell in Unstrung Heroes, Edith Bunker on All in the Family and Ashley Judd in Simon Birch.
What about the Hitchcock classic Psycho? In that case, the director has some fun with this, because the audience doesn’t know that the first woman (played by Janet Leigh) is really a “red shirt”, and assumes she isn’t because the story has centred on her initially.