I used to have panic attacks, really bad, so I can guarantee you, two things.
- You can get over them, no matter how bad you think you are
- Hyperventilation isn’t going to kill you. It’ll make you uncomfortable but it isn’t a killer.
Breathing into a paper bag does work, and if it doesn’t for you, you’re not doing it right. Now that is 100% understandable. When you panic, you are not thinking about proper form.
You can also try to cup up your hands over your mouth and nose. This will work nearly as well.
OR
If you can simply just shut your mouth. It is very difficult to hyperventilate while your mouth is closed. Oh sure it’s possible, but it’s really difficult to do.
The thing is you had a panic attack or anxiety. You didn’t get immediate relief and you got scared of the feeling of hyperventilation. Such as the tingling in your limbs that comes from it.
Your doc gave you Valium and it calmed you down ASAP. Now you want that 'cause it worked so quickly.
There is nothing really wrong with this. Valium and Xanax and the like are very helpful as TOOLS to fight your anxiety. But they will not cure it. Eventually you’re going to have to learn techniques to fight the fear.
Here’s a program that normally works for panic attacks. Your therapist will refer you to a doc (a psychiatrist who is an MD or DO). He/She will give you Valium or Xanax or something similar for short term use. That is one to three months.
You get an antidepressent for the anxiety. Paxil is one of the best, Imiprimine is also excellent though not used because of some side effects like constipation and dry mouth. These can take up to six weeks to take hold.
Next get a total physical. Check out your heart, breathing, blood tests, diabetes, etc, etc. This is very important, because once you rule out everything, you can assure yourself your anxiety is just that.
I also strongly recommend a book called “Stop Running Scared” by, Herbert Fensterheim. This book is out of print, (It was written in the late 70s) but it has valuable techniques and scripts to control fear and even a whole section on hyperventilation
Again, there is nothing wrong with Valium, it is there for a reason, it does help. But it’s not a cure all. In a month or so you’re going to hyperventiling while on Valium. But it is an excellent tool but not a cure all.
The hyperventilation produces more fear, tingling and dizziness. So it’s a vicious circle, but I can guarantee you, CAN get over it and you will not die, you will not go crazy or anything like that.
Remember when you get the fear to reassure yourself “This is distressing but not dangerous.”
Figting anxiety is not easy but it’s do-able. And one thing I’ve learned in life is this: you wll be surprised what you can do if you have to
Good Luck 