This afternoon was RuffLlama’s 2-year appointment with the pediatrician, whose office is in a large multi-story medical building shared with a diverse number of other medical professionals. When we got there, I really had to go to the bathroom, but the hallway bathroom by the elevators was locked (meaning, occupied). I tried going back several minutes later, but it was still locked. I ended up using the bathroom in the pediatrician’s office.
When we left, there were about 4-5 cleaning ladies and a paramedic at that same bathroom by the elevator, its door now wide open. I heard the paramedic saying he couldn’t find a pulse, and something about her body being cool and having levidity (had to look that up–means an unusual lack of color to the skin). I briefly glanced past the paramedic and saw an older woman naked from the waist down, lying on her side, then quickly turned away. We continued straight to the elevator and kept out of the way the few seconds it took to await the doors opening, but it was impossible to not overhear the sad details–we were three feet from everything.
I’m guessing a cleaning lady came by the clean the bathroom, knocked, and when there was no answer used her key to open it and saw this poor woman.
The ambulance and fire truck was arriving as we left. This was very exciting for vehicularly obsessed RuffLlama.
I started thinking as we passed the police cars and fire trucks pulling into the parking lot…When I first tried to use that bathroom, it was 3:45pm. When we left at 5pm, the paramedic and cleaning ladies were there. Thinking about this, I called the pediatrician’s office and told one of the girls in the office she might want to inform the paramedics that I had tried using that restroom twice well over an hour beforehand, and it was locked and quiet (no “Yes, I’m in here” when I wiggled the knob either time,). Not sure if it matters, but it might be useful for someone to know.
I’m not sure how old she was because, well, I just saw bare butt and thighs. Geez, how undignified a way to go.
I wonder who she is (was), and who she was there to see, and if she had been complaining of some symptoms that led to her demise, and that’s why she was in a medical building to begin with. Wonder if someone is waiting for her, and if she was still alive or semi-conscious either time I wiggled the knob.
It’s peculiar that the toilet is such a common place for someone to die. My hairdresser–a good friend of 9 years–just lost his father, and that’s where they found him, too.