I am sure these have been answered many many times, but I would like to add my own answers
1. What is the harm in believing in God (pick a God, any God) if it gives the believer comfort. Do you think it’s right to try and convince them that their comfort is a sham? Do you think it implies, gullibility, less intelligence or less growth?
I don’t think there is any harm in believing in God for the sake of happiness. I believe there is harm in believing in God if it makes you want to fly a plane into a skyscraper. I also believe not believing in god and believing that our morality comes from within is a nice way to live
2. How do you explain, not just the origin of man, but the origin of all. What was before that. I realize you don’t have the answer to that and you only really believe what is proved, so I guess I’m asking for your best guess scenario. You can give me the short version. Real short.
Before the Big bang? I haven’t a clue. Nor have I a clue what is beyond the universe or the concept of infinity. But I find the ‘logic’ of choosing to believe a ‘story’ because you can’t comprehend something is illogical (“God must exist because otherwise how do you explain what there was before time began?” I am sure that is paraphrased, but it is an illogical rationale)
Even if I was religious I’d still wonder things like - Who created god? Doesn’t that prove that religion is just as uncomprehendable as things like infinity and what there was before time.
4. When you look into your children’s eyes, does it ever cross your mind that they’re just going to be dust in a few decades. Does all of that lost brightness, joy, potential, just gone, seem sad or just matter of fact or doesn’t it cross your mind?
I don’t have any children. But when I look into my nieces eyes it doesn’t cross my mind that they will be dead in about 7 or 8 decades. I am emotionlessly aware of this fact. I know we are all going to die one day, but I don’t fear death. After death there will be no ‘me’ to suffer it.
5. Not really going to go here, just barely. Doesn’t there being no life after this one make abortion even more horrible, since this little person’s one chance for life is being snuffed. Or does it matter?
Are you assuming all atheists are pro-abortion? I am not pro-abortion. I believe very very strongly that life is precious.
6. Does an atheist ever wish God were true, provable?
I personally would like to believe there is an all powerful God that looks after us, and is not authoratitive, like a magic dictator as some fundementalists like to think he is.
7. When you’re in the depths of sorrow or pain, with no one to pray to or hold you up; what do you do?
Percivere, wait it out, endure.
8. I realize there are a lot of people out here hedging their bets and saying they believe in God and it has about the same meaning as I believe in eating right. For the people you’ve come across who truly do seem to believe, do you see any difference? More at peace? Happier? Or just more irritating?
I am disturbed by a lot of strong believers. Their apparent inability to speak logically scares me. Their seemingly genuine fear of their god saddens me. It feels to me like they are slaves to this imaginary power figure.
9. Have you ever understood why a lot of “believers” talk so weird (almost a Christian version of baby talk) when they’re discussing religion. Okay, I threw that one in for me. Irritates the hell out of me when someone takes on that weird “do you know Jesus” voice. I’ve always wondered why they do it, when it is so likely to clear a room in under a minute.
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10. When I’ve heard so many universe theories and explanations about time, space and everything having different rules than we understand; why when we say you can’t really apply man’s laws of nature to God does it seem to irritate the non-believer. When so much about the universe is unexplainable, why do you think God should have to be proven or rationalized?
Everything that a person believes in is desired to be proven, otherwise why believe in it?
I don’t understand why we have to come up with reasons for everything, why not just wait until someone has proven something, why do we have to force an explanation? Why not just be happy to be ignorant until the truth is found?
11. Do you ever look around at the beauty of nature, how complex even the function of our bodies are and think, how could this be some unplanned event?
Not at all. I look around and marvel at the beauty of mathematics and science and necesity that resulted in this complex system.
12. Do you think non-believers tend to be more pessimistic? Don’t get your panties into a bundle over that one. I just mean since I believe I have something really awesome to look forward to; I have some of that I get to go to Disneyland feeling. Ceasing to exist just doesn’t have the same ring to it?
I am a non believer and I am not pesimistic. I believe in human nature, human goodness.
For me, the end is something VERY much to look forward to. I get to find out one of those impossible questions. I get to find out who turned out to be right. I get to have a damn good rest!