This question (triggered by the section on defamation in the chapter I’m copyediting today)is in regard to something that happened to me a few years ago. Someone threatened (to another person, not to me, and was likely just making noise) to sue me for defamation. Nothing came of it and the incident is over. But in the process of learning about the law in case I would need to defend myself, I had one question left unanswered. I don’t want to get into the sordid details, but here are the stripped-down basics:
The supposedly “defamatory” things I was saying about this person were absolutely true. I was telling people how he had behaved toward me (extreme [for the situation], unprovoked verbal abuse) at his place of business. The only witnesses were me, him, and three of his employees who may or may not have been family members.
As I understand it, truth is an absolute defense to defamation. But (1) who has the burden of proof, and (2) what must be proved? I reiterate, this is all water under the bridge – I’m not trying to get free legal advice, because this is long over with. But had this gone to court, would I have had to prove what he said and did? (Rather difficult, with no witnesses of my own, and no tape recorder in my pocket.) Or would he have had to prove that he did not? (Would “his” witnesses have lied for him, or distorted the story? Possibly, I think. Would their testimony have been considered proof?) Does it make a difference that he might have suffered a slight loss of business as a result of what I said? (I will admit that that was my goal in spreading the story – believe me, if you knew the details, you wouldn’t go to him for his “service” either.) Yes, if people knew about his behavior, of course, it would “be injurious to his reputation” – the way he behaved, I would hope so! What was my risk of getting in trouble for telling the truth?
[sub]God, it’s been a few years now and I still get a little shaky just thinking about the incident. Does that give you an idea how upset I was?[/sub]
Again, I’m just curious what any of our legal eagles have to say about this specific issue of proof. (At the time, I did consult both my own lawyer and a few at “ask the expert” Web sites, but none of them really addressed this point specifically. I also waded through a bunch of court cases, to no avail.)