There is a difference between constructive criticism and complaint. The former has value, the latter, none.
No, you are not the only one that just complains and whines.
Yes, it does. By doing so, you are working alongside Fox and Pravda to dissillision voters, to make them think there is no point in coming out to vote, that both sides are the same. If your complaints are limited to this messageboard, then whatever, but given your passion about how the US conducts its affairs, I doubt that they are.
Just complaining in general does not. But your specific complaints indicate that you do not. You complain that they are not doing the things that they are in fact doing, and you complain that they are not doing things that they are in fact, not able to do. Hence, my accurate observation that you don’t have a clue as to what you are talking about.