Diference 'tween plastic & steel

This might not be a cosmic question, and if it isn’t, let it vanish i the big void.

I enjoy cooking. I usually cook dinner every day for myself, and tend to overachieve when I have house-guests. Ít’s a hobby.

With more and more stuff being tefloncoated, I use plastic utensils. One of them is that sort of long tweezer, that’s good for flipping steaks or bacon or whatever in the frying pan.
I friend of my, said: “You gotta get one in steel instead. It’s a more live material.”
I didn’t argue, but picked one up, a lo and behold, he was right.
Of course, both materials are equally dead, but somehow I get a better feel using steel, instead of plastic. Poking the steak to check if it’s done works with steel, but not with plastic.

So why, some sort of feel-conductivity? Why does steel feel more alive?

Steel is less alive. Plastic is make from formerly living things. Steel has never been alive.

Steel also conducts heat and vibration better. Maybe that’s it. Plastic pretty much insulates you from everything.

Short explanation:

Steel is stronger and much more rigid. Plastics are weaker, less rigid, and tend to damp vibrations.

When you poke a steak with a steel utensil, you’re feeling just the way the steak reacts. With a plasitc utensil, not only are you feeling the deflection of the steak, but also that of the tongs.