I think we’ve all heard stories about how Jimmy or Mary was a perfectly normal baby, but when s/he was two and got their shots, they immediately became autistic. Does that really happen, though? Or do people only realize that their children aren’t neurotypical once there are more milestones that they didn’t reach as readily as other children?
I worked with a little boy with autism and according to statements in his case file, his parents knew that he wasn’t interacting in a typical way when he was only a few months old. Were his parents more observant/objective than parents who report that there kids were neurotypical until ___ (usually having the MMR shot) turned them into a child with autism, or did symptoms show up much later in those other children? And do people other than parents, who might be considered slightly more objective, who saw the kids frequently also report that kids they know were “fine” as babies before becoming autistic?
Prior to that, her differences hadn’t presented a problem because I understood her and the things she was doing didn’t cause her difficulties.