Do Indians Always Use their Left Hand or is this a Rural Myth?

I’ve just returned from the place where, according to the poster seemingly written by Popeye, “Sometimes I sits and thinks, and sometimes I just sits”, and, well, this time, I was thinking. And what I was thinking was this: “Do all Indians, and for all I know other subcontinentals, use only their left hand when they wipe?”

Because I can’t. I’m too right-handed. Well, I suppose I could if, say, someone said to me, “Thornhill, use your left hand on every occasion for the rest of your life, else we’ll do something terrible to your family, like make them watch Michael Moore films every day for a month and write 100 times each day ‘Michael Moore does make serious documentaries, and so what if he’s an opportunistic hypocrite, so would I be if I had all his cash’.”

As you can probably appreciate, then, I might be against ownership of hand guns, but I do, perhaps in a rather old fashioned and non-PC way, take my responsibilities as a husband and father, indeed, as head of the household, seriously, and I would never, ever subject my loved ones to that kind of indignity, even at the cost of developing sciatica because of having to switch hands. (And not just hands, you know - arms and shoulders…nerve tissue, ligaments and tendons…god knows what else too.)

So is this just a rural myth - a reflection of the way we “orientalise” our cousins with skin less pale than us, a reflection of the middle-class tendency to sentimentalise and romanticise those who are poorer than us, while secretly being pretty okay about the status quo, 'cos it’s nice to get your trainers and stuff cheap - or is it true?

Would Ed Zotti/SDSAB/Mods/Admin, AKA “Cecil Adams”, please, please investigate this sticky problem? It would be so easy to wash our hands of it, but what purpose would that serve in the war on ignorance that Cec has waged so manfully for all these years?

I’m not sure I get what you’re asking, but I have a whole bunch of Indian friends and they’re all right-handed.

Well, I rather think that this is something you could only ask them if you enjoy a particularly close, or, alternatively, kinky, friendship. What I want to ascertain is whether folks from the Indian subcontinent always use only their left hand to wipe their bottoms, thus freeing up their right hand for mopping up the curry with their naan bread.

If you could dig a little deeper, I’d be most appreciative.

Roger wants to know if the people of India all use their left hands to wipe their butts, which is supposed to be why you shake with your right hand, not your left. My guess is no, and that many of those who are left-handed use their right hands for the task.

I always used to assume that all right-handed people with two functional hands used their left hands for butt wiping (and the reverse for us lefties), but I learned a couple of years ago this isn’t so.

Oh, gracious, I have opened a can of worms! I don’t want the title modified, but perhaps we could broaden the discussion to include all colours, creeds and peoples. The entire human race. Canadians also welcome.

In reality, it’s the water that does most of the work. The hand is only for particularly stubborn situations, and even then it’s quick and alway acompanied by flowing water. It’s a two-handed operation no matter how you do it- one hand pours water and one assists with the rest as needed. I’m sure there are some people that use their right hand for some reason, but it’s probably not common. Different areas vary in how gross the left hand is.

This practice is found throughout South Asia and the Middle East. It’s not too bad- no worrying about keeping TP in stock and it gets you much cleaner.

Now, you’ve got my mind working overtime trying to visualise. Are you saying that some farm worker in say Tamil Nadu crouches down low over a stream and then gently lowers his or her rear end into the stream? How do old folk cope? Or do they use hose pipes? But do they all have them? So many questions?

Is this a dietary thing? Places where beans are the staple, rather than say rice, pose more of a sticky problem? Surely, the alternative reading, that in which ‘different areas’ is understood as referring to different areas of teh body, can be ruled out? I take it you’re not talking about emergency colostomies performed by unlicensed doctors.

I took it to mean that different places **perceive **the left hand to be more or less disgusting.

I took it to mean that different places differ in how disgusting they perceive the left hand to be.

Hello?..Hello?..Tenar, you okay?

Forget my last post, t. I won’t even try to start explaining why I responded like that.

Mind you, if anyone can guess, they win one of my Micheal Moore documentaries, if they happen to be passing by HK.

Ah, interesting…

On a slightly related tangent, just how do Indians perceive Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom?

FWIW, Indian here, right-handed, uses left hand to wipe. This is just one of those cultural things, I think. It took me a long time to adapt to using toilet paper, and I still can’t help feeling that there’s something lacking in the hygeine department there. Of course, people brought up on TP squick out at the thought of using hands, but the thing is that hands get washed immediately after - very, very thoroughly.

In south India, the custom of using your right hand to eat and pass anything is quite strong - I know several people who would be quite offended if you offered them anything held in your left hand, especially money.

Nope, you just use a jug of water held in the right hand, and pour. Subcontinent toilets are mostly squat-style anyway, so people are used to it. It’s not really that hard; explaining is much more difficult. I have noticed more and more houses with Western-style toilets do have a tiny shower near the loo for just this purpose.

Apologies for TMI, if any.

I was fool enough to read many James Bond books (yes, they were books, once - anybody else remember that they were books?) in the late pre-teen and early teen years of my young life, when they got burned like Scriptures into the developing brain. It took me no effort at all to recall this sentence (although I must use K. for the name of the person speaking since apparently that segment of my brain burned out):

“Not with the left, James!” K. hissed. “These people use the left hand for only one thing!”
Bond hesitated, then continued reaching across the table with his left hand to grasp a bottle of wine…

Every bathroom has a small pitcher. In nice bathrooms, there is a spigot on the wall near the toilet. Some places all go deluxe with hoses. In rural public restrooms, there will be several pitchers around a central tank or hand pump- you need to flll it up before you go in to the stall. A thourough handwashing should take place afterwards, and always before eating.

Everyone else got it right- I meant how gross they think the left hand is. With proper waashing, it’s as clean as anything else. Our hands go throught a lot.

Indian here. I use my right hand when I use the western style toilet, and my left hand when using the Indian style squat design. More a matter of conveninece and manueverability in my case. And so, there you go. Not all Indians use the left hand to wipe their butt.

Of late, I have found an add-on to western style toilets in India become quite popular. A pipe, about 1/4 inch in diameter, is clamped at the top and back surface of the pot. The opening of the pipe is oriented in a direction that when the water is turned on, the jet hits the butt opening and quite efficiently cleans up the mess. I little wiggling may be desirable to ensure the entire area is covered. Ahh… and heavenly if the water is warm. The first time I saw such a system was in a 5 star hotel in Japan. That toilet was fit for a space shuttle I think. Heated seat, and a console on one side with soft touch buttons. Press one and water would wash the butt. Push another and a jet of warm air will dry it. Some can!

I’ve heard this custom referred to hundreds of times, but I still for the life of me cannot imagine how it is you pour water over the, um, contaminated region. Water doesn’t pour horizontally in my experience, so how is it that you manage to actually get any water to flow over your asshole?

Then why the cultural taboo over using your left hand for anything?

I gotta say, that sounds absolutely magnificent . . .

Generally you are squatting (Westerners squat all wrong, FWIW, try it with your feet flat to the ground and your knees spread. Keep your center of gravity low. much easier!) This leave everything plenty exposed and creates a nice little rivine for the water to flow down. Or you can pour the water directly on to your left hand, and use that to splash/direct the flow to the right place. People do this all theirs lives and so they’ve generally got the flexibility to do it. It’s not a great cultures to be overweight or out of shape in, and they generally arn’t.

Christian/European culture is unique in not having much in the way of ritual uncleanliness. It’s hard for us to make sense, for example, of the deep feeling that Islam has that pigs are unclean. It’s unclean because without adequate washing the left hand is unclean, and when these taboos developed (most likely in some Middle Eastern desert) adequate washing was a lot harder. Even with good washing the cultural feeling of impurity is still there. In Hindusim, espcially, purity and cleanliness are big concerns, and food preparation and eating can have religious implications. It’s really just a cultural sense that we don’t have.

A lot of (but not all) bathrooms I’ve used in SE Asia are an entire ‘wet zone’. There’s a toilet, a sink, and a shower with one of those instant heaters, but no curtain or shower cubicle. You’re supposed to make the whole place wet and steamy. Anyway, there’s no bidet as such, but next to the toilet, there is a flexible hose with a trigger nozzle on the end. That’s what you use instead of toilet paper (which you can’t keep anyway in a thoroughly wet bathroom). A quick blast of water, and you’re clean as a whistle.

As for the OP, I’m left handed, but I try to hand over money with my right hand when I’m in an Indian or Middle Eastern shop. I forget sometimes, but I make the effort usually.

I don’t know what India you went to, but there are a lot of fat Indians.