I rarely feel threatened, but I recognize that through my job, many people feel threatened by me, and some of them will act out against me, so I govern myself accordingly.
As a family lawyer, I have been threatened quite a few times over the years. It is not a big problem, but it is significant enough that violence against lawyers is one of the issues that is occasionally covered in continuing legal educations programs, such as the one we held a couple of weeks ago in my district.
For example, in the districts where I practice:
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[li]A charter plane carrying the circuit court and lawyers (including me) was shot down (bullets through a wing while landing – took the rest of the day to get materials and a mechanic flown in to make repairs) – criminal law matters.[/li][li]I was assaulted in my office during a conference, resulting in a police search of my office and also another law office in the building (having played rugby for seventeen years, I was able to forcibly ram the assailant out of the office and shut the door which he then tried to bust down) – family law matter.[/li][li]A fellow whom I verbally ejected from my office went to see another lawyer that day whom he then attempted to murder (and was for which he was convicted) – family law matter.[/li][li]Someone shot out the door of the office in which I worked out of anger against another lawyer – I later ended up taking that lawyer’s job) – family law matter.[/li][li]A prisoner in the dock extracted a tampon from herself and pegged the judge in the forehead with it – criminal law matter.[/li][li]A judge who is now retired has mentioned that he kept a handgun with him while in court (note this is Canada, where handguns are few and far between) – general law matters.[/li][li]Decades ago, a fellow in court shot to death his wife, the judge and himself – family law matter.[/li][/ul]
Lawyering is a safe career overall. In my country, Canada, handguns are few and far between, so even although occasionally a nutter loses it, the frequency of unplanned killings is negligible. What is safer than being a lawyer in Canada? Driving to work is riskier for a lawyer than working in chambers. Staying at home is riskier for a lawyer than working in chambers (lawyers have a higher than average suicide rate – depression kills – but typically the office is not where they off themselves).
That being said, although the risk is very slight, some specialties are more risky than others. My area of law, family law, has its risks, which tend to be higher than many other specialities of law. What it comes down to is that when nutters with pre-existing anger management problems find themselves at the end of their rope by losing everything in life that they care for (ostensibly their children, spouse, and home, but in reality their power and control over their children, spouse and home) and fall down into a vortex of escalating mental crises and alcohol dependency, they lash out verbally, and sometimes physically, at anyone whom they perceive to be against them in their obsession to regain power and control over their children, spouse and home.
Think of it this way. Do you ever recall coming across someone and thinking, “He’s a fuse waiting to be lit!” Well folks like that often go off the rails when their lives bottom out, such as when their family lives disintegrate before their eyes (read: when their spouse attempts to escape from their psychological and financial manipulation and physical and sexual assaults). Family litigation lights their fuse. Family lawyers do what they can to protect their clients (arranging restraining orders, increased police presence, regular court attendances, secure safe houses with support workers on-site, and secure professionally supervised child exchange and/or visitation centres), but the more the lawyer protects his or her client, the more the maladjusted nutter perceives the lawyer to be the threat preventing him or her from getting their life back, so occasionally a nutter will act out violently against the lawyer.
Bear in mind that in family litigation, matters resolve by (a) mutual cooperation, (b) judicial decree, or (c) one side or the other being wiped out either financially or emotionally. If a nutter will not cooperate in resolving the matter by mutual cooperation, I will move heaven and earth to defeat that nutter by any legal means available, so I am a very real threat to the nutter, and therefore it is in my own person best interest to be alert to the probability that the nutter will recognize me as a threat and the possibility that the nutter will lash out against me outside of legal bounds.
To mitigate the risks, I will not meet with a person whom I deem to be potentially violent, or verbally out of control, or in any way failing my spidey-sense, unless the meeting is before a judge at court with security alerted. If I do not have such concerns, but there are indications of either a significant power imbalance between the parties, or one or the other party liking to press the other’s buttons, I will not hold face-to-face negotiations with the parties both at the table, and instead I will hold shuttle negotiations – give them each their own boardroom with cookies etc., but keep them the hell away from each other so as to keep things calm.
If over the phone a potential client seems a little bit off in any way or unduly hostile or angry concerning anyone (e.g. their spouse, another lawyer or a judge) or anything (e.g. the government, or a gender/sex, ethnicity, race or religion etc.), or if there are indications of previous or present instigation of domestic abuse or conflict with the law, I will not meet with them, represent them or give them advice.
Physically, I keep my office door locked, I have an otherwise unused extra exit to my office, I keep my cell phone within easy reach, and I do not meet with people after hours unless I have previously met with them during office hours and I trust them. For court attendances, I and/or the judge alerts court security (not rent-a-cops – real police officers) in advance of any attendances at which a nutter is expected to be present, and they are very good at not letting a nutter out of arm’s reach, and monitoring ongoing attendances. All the public areas of the courthouse are under audio and video surveillance, and entry into the courthouse is the same as airport security only done by actual police officers who know what they are doing and are very thorough.
So do I feel threatened despite the risks? No, I do not feel threatened, but at work I am alert to threats and I mitigate those risks so that I do not feel threatened, just as when I drive to work I am alert to risks and I mitigate them by driving defensively so that I do not feel threatened. I enjoy my job, and I enjoy my drive home knowing that at the end of the day I have helped good people in bad situations deal with people who threaten them emotionally, sexually, physically and/or financially.