If you could get admitted to an orgy would that be something you’d be into?
For me, no. Sex with one person (one particular person) is intimate and romantic. Sex with a lot of people just sounds awkward and like a lot of work.
I didn’t feel up to breaking the poll down by sex and other stuff, but it’d be interesting if commenters included their sex, orientation, age, as well as whatever they want to say.
Female, straight, 43
I wouldn’t participate in any orgy that would allow me to participate.
I’ve been to some situations in which lots of folks were having simultaneous sex and where joining in with the puppypile would have been acceptable and welcome.
I have nothing against it in principle but mostly I’m rather shy about sex. In privacy with one other person is one thing but so far I find it kind of intimidating to have a bunch of other folks around. But with increased exposure may come greater comfort levels.
Yes. Don’t judge me.
Male, 33.
Any type of sex with more than two people would be, in my opinion, too distracting to enjoy. Am I supposed to be here? Or here? I don’t want anyone feelin’ left out, ya know? 
Yeah, sounds distracting to me too. And awkward. It’s not that I want sex to be romantic (I don’t) but there’s not really anything about an orgy that sounds appealing to me.
Not really. I’m more into one-on-one stuff, and really can’t imagine trying to divide attention with or away from my favored partner. (Not that I think they’re immoral, just not my cup of tea.) I have been at a couple of parties where they broke out, and attended BDSM play parties as a quasi-body-guard for a female friend who enjoyed the scene but did not feel safe going as a single woman, and found that I didn’t like being a voyeur, either.
My ex-fiancee had participated in a few 4+ sessions without men before we were together, and I agreed (with severe apprehension) to participate in one if she organized it. She was romantically drawn to men, but more sexually drawn to women than men and liked watching other women together, so I think she wanted to unite all of that into one experience. Luckily, we broke up before it happened. She hated other women showing me attention (she attempted to form a three-partner relationship with her best friend as our mutual girlfriend, then broke it off when the friend spent too much time talking to me on our first date together), so I have no clue why she thought it would be peachy to have an experience with even more women involved. And, despite the male fantasy aspect of it, not sure I’d have liked seeing her having sex with other women.
I’ve had several threesomes and an occasional moresome. They can be fun.
I’ve been in lots of situations that could be called “orgies.” Like anything else, it could be great, could be awful, could be something in-between.
The last one I was in, I met my partner. I guess we “rescued” each other from all that.
I wouldn’t participate in any orgy that would allow Rand Rover to participate either.
Theoretically, it could be fun. Practically, the people who’d participate in orgies would seem to have a higher STD risk, which would worry me.
Heck no.
I wouldn’t go quite that far: I wouldn’t participate in any orgy that would allow more than one person like me to participate. If 2+ bisexual women decide to invite me to their orgy for some reason I’m all for it, as long as it doesn’t end in human sacrifice or anything like that.
Male 49, not in the least.
Male, straight 28. To watch, maybe. Participate, nah.
Straight 53 year old male. Once had a situation with two women simultaneously and while an interesting experience, it was kinda overwhelming. Prefer one on one.
I wouldn’t say no, and would actually probably enjoy it, but my standards/methods of partner choices wouldn’t change. That is, I’d have to be emotionally and physically comfortable with all of them, and feel some sort of connection other than Tab A Slot B. Since it’s unlikely for such a dynamic to occur with more than two other people at a time, I’m probably going to remain orgy free. (I’ve had a couple of threesomes, and enjoyed them, but yes, there is a risk of excess elbows.)
Woman 55.
I’ve been to some, never watched, never participated, never interested.
I was friends with a couple who had orgies almost every weekend over the summer, weather permitting. They lived in a fairly secluded area back in the woods and every summer they would move out of their house and into a teepee.
There would always be a group of us off to the side who were talking, drinking and getting high. Once I spent the entire time comforting a woman who had come there with her boyfriend, who had no idea he was bringing her to an orgy.
I finally told my friend if she would stop inviting me over on orgy nights I’d stop lecturing her about STDs.
Male, married, in love with my wife. Orgies do not interest me.
However.
Thinking with my dick, my younger dick when I was a single guy, sure. Since I am a selfish guy, I can imagine me and multiple women having an animal style raunchy orgy. No dudes, just me and the women. If this opportunity would have dropped in my lap, I would have been in.
I don’t want that many people seeing me naked. Besides, for me, sex is a one-on-one thing involving a little more than just the physical.
I guess I don’t really understand the big appeal of orgies, especially to men. Once you’ve had sex with one person, aren’t you sort of done, at least for a while?