Warning for Magiver for one of the worse hijacking attempts I’ve seen in a while not from a troll. You want to start an argument or debate on belief systems, start a thread for it. Don’t try to derail another thread.
Your warnings are adding up, I strongly suggest you carefully avoid hijacking threads in the future. We’re pretty lax in In My Humble Opinion, but this is really blatant.
Sounds reasonable. I hope that Christians who expect non-Christians to graciously acknowledge wishes of a “blessed day” or “Merry Christmas”, as a conventional equivalent of a secular pleasantry that shouldn’t bother anybody, will be similarly gracious and civilized when their Muslim co-workers and neighbors start saying to them “Alhamdulillah” (“Praise to God/Allah”) as a formulaic response when they sneeze, or share good news, etc.
After all, if it’s being oversensitive for this figure of speech to bother us, then surely it would be oversensitive for that figure of speech to bother them.
I just say “enjoy your holiday” because most people are having a holiday of some sort, even if it’s just a couple days off work. If someone says Merry Christmas, I will happily say Merry Christmas in return, not the least because I actually celebrate Christmas, secularly.
Sneezes are rare enough I’ll not have a chance to use that any time soon. I hope my memory for all things Satanic is strong enough to carry the day when the opportunity arises.
I’ve trained my lovely wife not to automatically say “Bless you” when I sneeze, but she forgets sometimes. Since every time we drive by a construction sign that says STEEL PLATE IN ROAD she has to hear me say STEEL PLATE IN HEAD, I try to cut her some slack.
We’re getting closer and closer to “over reacting” and “hysterical” here.
Seriously, I don’t go home and brood about these people, I don’t gnashing my teeth, shred my garments, or clutch pearls. It’s an irritation. When I go home I’m just glad to be home. I might share the more colorful customer interactions with family, but it’s a passing thing.
I’ve worked customer service my whole working life, I’ve gotten lots of worse guff from customers than the blessed day thing. However, it’s an irritation. I’ve waited on many of these people for years, and suddenly in the middle of a christian national resurgance they wish me a “blessed day?” It’s also very intentional; it’s not have a “blessed day” sort of while they pack up their things, look at the donuts, wrangle their kids: it’s stop, look me in the eye, lean over the counter, and say it.
Y’all may think whatever you like about my assumptions, my mental health, whatever. I’m not over reacting, hysterical, a mind reader, etc. I can recognize intentional when I see it. But you apparently know my life, interactions, and circumstances better than I do. Speaking of “mind reading.”