Same here. If it’s someone I know but don’t know their number, or it’s important (i.e. my bank) they’ll leave a message and I’ll get back to them.
1-800 numbers are almost always ignored.
I don’t pick up calls unless they are from someone i know, and those are still dependent on mood.
Generally true for me, too. I can easily check voicemail and see if it was something important.
And how, exactly, would 52 of those a year have cumulatively harmed them in any demonstrable way, compared to the benefit realized by answering the call?
I’m still waiting for a poster here to explain how his life has been negatively affected in any measurable way by unsolicited phone calls. Aside from those who have incrementally ramped up their anger issues toward a dangerous tipping point.
I always answer, but in my case I guess that’s professional courtesy. Calling people who you don’t know sucks no matter why you are calling, so I try to be a bright spot in their day.
Part of my job entails calling people who responded to an ad my company placed to set up appointments to meet with them. I have literally hundreds of people to call on any given day. I never leave a message because I don’t have time to waste leaving messages. If they want to talk to me they will answer the phone, if not I will call back later when I have time. Sometimes that’s later that day, sometimes it’s not for a month or two. The easiest way to get me to stop calling you though is to just take a minute to let me identify myself (if you hang up on me before I tell you who I am I am calling you RIGHT back.) and then say you don’t want to talk to me after all. I don’t want to spend more than 90 seconds on the phone with any single person, so I am not going to fight you and I will stop calling because it’s wasting my time.
This won’t work for every caller, but maybe it will help you to with some if you understand how people who make these kind of phone calls think.
You only get calls from unknown numbers once a week? Every day, I get two or three of them, based on the number of missed calls displayed on my phone.
When my credit card company calls, their name shows up, and so I answer. They also leave a message.
We easily get 6 - 8 junk calls a day, and we have a phone which announces the voice on speaker phone, so we don’t even have to go to the phone. Even if I pick up 90% of them are robo-dialers which don’t even answer.
And it is not just 800 numbers - more and more spoof real numbers, like the IRS scam ones do.
Yes, because I can’t stand listening to the phone ring and not answering it; the ringing bothers me a lot more than junk phone calls do.
I have no answering machine, but I’m home pretty much all day and I answer my phone if it rings. I’d say once a week is a good average for the number of unwanted calls I get, but sometimes they come in a flurry of three or four in as many days. Other times, maybe a couple of weeks with no calls.
I get calls sometimes from acquaintances/friends that I don’t really want to talk to, because they have unlimited calling time and go on and on. It is often a relief to hear a robocall, and just hang up and go on with my day.
Yep. Some days, I get 8 or more. I don’t answer them because I usually have more important things to do than talk to yahoos about things I don’t want to buy.
Second, the phone is a convenience. It is not a guarantee to anyone that I will be instantly available at the whims of the universe. I don’t feel the need to answer the phone during dinner. I don’t call people (or answer) while I’m checking out at the store. I certainly don’t put a premium on some sales call over my time.
Why would I answer every call as if I were enslaved to my device?
I can get up to 3 or 4 per day, on a bad day. At least one a day on average. I don’t have unlimited daytime minutes, so I don’t waste them on spam calls. Why should I pay for someone to sell at me?
The judgment is simple – is it a number I know? If not, is it a local area code where it might be a job or client? Every other call gets voicemail. I have no anxiety – if it IS important, they’ll leave a message, and often an email too. If they don’t, it couldn’t have been that important. (Sometimes the robots will leave a message too. That’s annoying.)
Yep. Sometimes (aka often) during the day I’m in the middle of a project, which I can’t and won’t just drop because the phone rings. If they leave a message I’ll call back when I’m done.
You wouldn’t want to talk to me after you’ve interrupted my work, anyway. If your interruption makes me lose my place, I will be PISSED.
People who are getting 4-6 calls a day should look into some form of call blocking. Chances are, you’re not getting 40 unique numbers calling you per week but rather 6-8 people who keep calling. If you have phone through your cable company, you can add the numbers to a list to block them, I think AT&T has a service to block specific numbers or get a land line phone that has its own “Block Call” list so it won’t ring and bother you if Rachel from Card Services comes calling. You should be able to winnow out a lot of those spam calls over time.
I rarely get calls trying to sell me anything but rather charities, political groups and polls. I don’t mind the polls and, depending on the day and caller, I might be good for a few bucks so I’m usually okay with answering. My mother had a stint as a cold caller way back in the day and said she preferred it when people just cut her off with a “No thank you” and hung up so that’s how I handle the calls I don’t want. And, if I just reject the call from the Epilepsy Foundation they will keep calling every night anyway trying to get through until I just spend ten seconds saying “no”.
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do you have a system that keeps track of how many times you’ve called a number with no answer and/or how frequently over a period of time? is there a number where you say it not worth it and drop a phone number from your list? I ask because there is a number that I get calls from that follows the pattern you described. (I noticed this looking through my call records one time)
Yes, I have a database system that I use that logs calls and let’s me input notes on the calls I make. Usually if I haven’t contacted you after a month or so I will stop calling and, occasionally, mail you something saying you need to call me if you are still interested. But if I have other appointments in your area and a gap in my schedule I might try calling you again even if it’s a few months later. It sort of depends. But it has more to do with where you are located and where I am going to be working than anything else. The longer it has been since I first tried to contact you the further down my list you are going to fall though.
Unless you mail another card in. Then you go back up to the top.
How is the call you make tagged? Do you use your company name, or something like Toll Free Call (which our phone pronounces as Joel Free Call) or Unknown Caller? I’m a lot more likely to answer a call from someone with a tag, and of course in your case they for some reason want to talk to you. I’m on the list of a consumer survey company. Their name is on their calls, and I always answer it.
But 99% of the calls I get are scams or useless to me marketing calls . I suspect that is true for most people.
My cell phone number shows up on the caller ID even though I make my calls via Skype. I have that set up so in case someone calls me back they can get me.
It doesn’t show my name or company name though. If I knew how to fix that I would add it.
I guess I am old-fashioned, but if my phone rings I answer it. I suppose if I got several calls a day, I might get caller-id, but I don’t. I doubt if my phone rings as often as once a day.
I can see that some of you would never be able to contact one another.
I have a landline too and had it for years and have caller ID right on my phones . I got my first cell phone , I wasn’t sure if I would be able to hear on one. I don’t pick up 1 800 calls and I guess in Nov. there will be a lot of political
calls !
I have no landline. Any “telemarketing” calls I receive on my cell generally fall into two categories: scammy-type calls “You’ve been selected for a free cruise, etc” that usually show up on call display as local cell numbers, and “established business relationship” sales calls which are usually either my bank or my cable provider trying to upsell me. These generally show up as 800 numbers. In my experience if I ignore them they keep calling every couple days until I answer.