I took my mom to the doctor yesterday. Long story short, she’s got a spot on her hip. It’s either cancer, a benign tumor or the result of hyperparathyroidism (probably the latter). We’ll know next Friday.
She has a really bad back anyway, but this hip is really bothering her. She’s in a lot of pain and her mobility isn’t too great right now.
So she asks the doctor for a painkiller. Before she can even get the sentence out (literally), he goes:
“I’m not going to give you a narcotic.”
Well gee, she wasn’t friggin ASKING for one!
Then ensued a conversation that has me completely baffled.
He told her what he was going to give her, that it was related to Motrin, which doesn’t work on her. She told him this and he said “I don’t prescribe narcotics.” Note she’s not even freaking asking for a narcotic, just something that will work. I got curious and asked him “How much pain does someone have to be in before you will prescribe a narcotic?” He did a song and dance about how he didn’t think she needed a narcotic and that he likes to try NSAIDS, etc. Then I asked him “what if those didn’t work?” I about fell out of my chair when he replied “I’m not going to talk about that.” (He did later say that he would give her a referral to the pain center here, she’s considering it.)
All she wants is something that will WORK. She’s not fond of narcotics because they make her queasy, but at this point she’d rather deal with that than the pain. He gave her an NSAID that starts with a V and is related to Motrin, I can’t remember the name.
So what is the deal, here? Why do doctors assume that everyone who wants a painkiller is a drug addict? Are they really punishing 99% of their patients due to the 1% who are lying?
This hip thing just isn’t affecting her. It’s putting a strain on me and my family, too. Her quality of life is going down a bit and it hurts all the time. Why would doctors rather condemn a patient to suffering than give them a prescription for something that could help?
It’s not about narcotics. It’s about telling a patient “this is what you can have, and if it doesn’t work, sorry 'bout your luck. We have other drugs but we’re not going to let you have them.”
FWIW, every doctor at this group practice is like this. I can’t believe that these are evil people who want their patients to suffer, so what is the reasoning behind this way of thinking?