My two cents:
I’ve been taking BP meds since my late 20s, I’m 71 now. And I’m reliable when it comes to taking medication.
Mr VOW was put on BP meds about the age of 40. He kept track of his own meds, refilled them himself. I tried to be encouraging, bcause I knew damn well he was hit or miss taking his pills. He’d say, “Oh, I missed yesterday, I’ll take two. And I’m supposed to take Vitamin E, it’s good stuff, I’ll take three.” I even bought him pill caddies. They make dandy dust catchers.
I remember discussing his casual pill-taking with our family doctor. I was so frustrated, I cried. She said shealready knew he wasn’t taking his medication as he should. And there wasn’t anything she or I could say or do to change his ways.
In 2005, Mr VOW developed Seizure Disorder, and lost his driver’s license. You’d think his right hand was cut off! Seeing as how his medication was ABSOLUTELY NECESSARY for him to stabilize and regain his license, I put my foot down. I bought new pill caddies, I filled them myslf, and I kept track of the refills. And he takes all of his goddamned pills now.
Several years ago, we got a new family doctor. She listened to Mr VOW’s chest, and said he had a heart murmur. That was a new symptom for him. A referral to acardiologist and an EKG verified the murmur. No big deal, he might be short of breath occasionally.
What caused the murmur? No way to really tell, but his untreated blood pressure could have contributed to it.
In our 70s now, we’re at the age when our limitations constantly slap us in our faces, and we bemoan that we could have treated our bodies so much better when we were younger.
Take a look at your own family tree. How many grandparents, aunts, uncles, etc died in their 50s and 60s from heart attacks or strokes. And wonder how much longer they would have lived if their blood pressure were monitored and treated.
Yes, medication side effects can be a nuisance, or even worrying. There are so many drugs now, your doctor can look for something you could better tolerate. Because the side effect of NOT treating your blood pressure could mean death 15-20 years too soon.
~VOW