It looks like such a conversation took place during the winter of our missed content. Here is a fragment cached at www.boardreader.com
Izzy said, “Actually, no. I think the notion that the primary motivation for a forced sex act is sex is commonsensical - rather like the notion that the primary motivation for armed robbery is money. Further, the performance of the sex act itself would seem to require a certain level of arousal on the part of the rapist. And again, the
age distribution of victims is heavily weighted in favor of sexual attractiveness.(Many “rape = violence” assertions make note of the fact that women of all ages can be raped. Which is true - anything can happen, but there is an enormous decrease at older ages).”
How do you account for rapists who have a steady supply of sex at home and still prefer to terrorize their victims with sex? It’s power and humiliation – not sex. Usually. I’ll give you date rape, but that’s about it.
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There are people who have “a steady supply of sex at home” and still have affairs.
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There may be people who are attracted specifically to this type of sex. (I noted this in my first post.) There is a lot of room for variations in taste when it comes to these matters.